This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.
Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.
Boom. There it is. Marry the woman or GTFO and stop wasting her time.
Someone doesn't know how unfair the system is to men, then attacks men for not following the system's rules. Dumb
**DING, western women (most) are half of the reason we're in this jam right now. All emotion, no facts or analytics. Voting for libtards and hate of white men. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. They slut it up for 10 yrs and then want the best guy they can find while complaining and not bringing the goods to the table themselves. Again, many not all women. There's shit men out there too,
The difference is, shit men were scolded by society into oblivion. That’s why they’re shit.
Women were shit simply because they chose to be, and did so with the full backing of modern society.
Fuck that, be accountable and hold your fellow man accountable. When men stop putting up with shitty women and demand more of themselves, they'll get what they want.
The rising tide lifts all ships and everyone needs to focus on the one thing they can control; themselves.
Someone doesn't know that divorce shouldn't even be an option and they are living in an artificial construct that is easily ignored by being principled and surrounding yourself with other principled people.
EDIT:
The destruction of the family is Satan's goal. It's the Communist's goal.
-Matthew 19:6
For everyone who would mock religion or God, this is the fruit.
Yeah, my ex-wife said the exact same thing before she took half my stuff and utterly destroyed my life, but okay.
Sad I only have one upvote to give you.
Marriage is a religious ceremony and the government should just stay out of it.
Why we still force a default binding contract is beyond me. Outdated and unneeded. We should empower women and break the chains of this contract enforced by the evil patriarchy.
How did she live her life before she said those things? What was her family like? What were her friends like?
Yeah, buddy, thought I married a Christian conservative chick only to find out she was not who I thought she was, cheated, took thousands of dollars from me, and I only get to see my kids half the time now. Don’t criticize a guy for not wanting to sign up to be screwed over by a woman and the courts.
I'm sorry to hear that man. Sucks when kids are in the mix, and courts always side with the mother. Talk about sexism!
Did you have sex before marriage?
I think this is one of the biggest issues we have to fix as men for the next generation.
BASED!
More people know your right. I'm glad you ssid this
You can never marry if that’s your choice but you have to shit or get off the pot.
I'm not talking about me, we couldn't be happier, we both got lucky early.
But many friends have had their lives destroyed by women that watch the TV and think it's real life and go to destroy their own life and those of their men
I have several friends that are in long term loving relationships, shared home ownership, planning their retirement together. Some of them have kids.
They haven't got married. They don't need an aritficial contrived contract to tell them they love each other.
This. Marriage doesn't actually mean shit. From the man's perspective it's literally everything to lose and nothing to gain. Worst deal in the history of deals, possibly ever.
Why not shit until she gets off the pot?
System is definitely skewed to favor women, but get a fucking prenup and then sack up and commit. If she refuses, then she isn't willing to commit either.
Prenups are written on toilet paper. They often times have zero standing. Search the interwebs and you will see.
Not sure if that works anymore tbh. Not talking about myself anyway.
If you want to marry a decent female get a European female, Americans are to poisoned
They don't. A guys only real smart play anymore is to marry a women who makes a good income. She will have skin in the game to make things work. If they don't she makes good money so she won't take you to the cleaners.
Every European except Eastern Europeans is retarded.
I am a guy, and the it is all stacked hugely in our favor. Women that want families have a pretty small window to make that happen, all the while having to deal with man-boys that just want to fuck them and not marry them, and before they know it, it's too late. One of her great life goals flushed down the toilet because she fell in love with the wrong guy.
Yeah get married to the wrong woman and watch everything you value get destroyed. I've seen it enough times.
You sound like a white knight with little to no experience with women. You sure yo have the wrong forum? Guess what, if a woman starts dating at 18 she has plenty of time to figure out who the smart marriage material guys are. Unless she's dumb enough to date the same guy for 17+ years. The women who find out it's too late are generally leftist libtards who ride the caulk carousel for a good decade and a half and then try and find a quality guy. The problem is that the quality guys are taken and the ones left know they're ho's and trash.
You sound like these very women. Making idiotic excuses.
Lol. Caulk carousel.
Difference is she isn't on the hook to lose everything she owns.
On the flip side, men have to deal with women wanting a family in the small window they have available, whether the man wants it or not. If she thinks he can pay, she'll have the child.
Then there are the men that want a family, find a woman that wants a family, have a family then.. she drops him. No more access to the kids, but fuck yes he's going to have to pay for them.
Sure, there are also the men that pump & dump. There are also laws requiring them to pay for the children they've created. Good luck finding the laws against paternity fraud, let alone a DA willing to prosecute it.
That is a peril, and you need to be mindful of that. My advice would be to only date women who don't want to have kids if you are anti-family. Leave those who do to find guys that will give them that family. Keep her trapped with you, she will either trap you back with an unwanted child that will likely drive you apart, or, as I pointed out originally, you will deprive her of something deeply important to her, as once she is over 30, that window is basically shut.
What woman today has a life goal of becoming a mother and house wife? NONE.
Why do you think millions of babies are killed every year?
If none of them have that goal, then why do millions of them get married and have kids every year? I would say of the women I know, most want that. But that is all beside the point. My statement was directed towards men, not women. If you are with a woman in her 20s and you know she wants a family and you don't, then let her go so she can find someone who can give her what she wants before its too late for her. To not do it is just cruel.
You should also spend time thinking about what you really want from life, and where you see yourself in five, ten, twenty years. Are you planning to be that 50 year old guy in the nightclub chasing 20-year old tail, or do you see yourself with a family of your own? What about when you are 70?
That's retarded. I'm married but I understand why men wouldn't want to marry these days. The sheer number of whores out there plus the fact that the courts hate us doesn't help someone being convinced it's a good thing for them.
The DS went after marriage and the relationship between men and women for a reason.
Hopefully you know if a woman is good or not. Gotta get to know her personality and character. Look at her family and friends, observe her priorities. You’ll know.
I told my husband he had 18 months to figure it out from the point of our first “this is it” phone call. He proposed with 2 days left til I was gonna break up with him 🤣
If my nephew told me his girlfriend had given him 18 months to propose or she'd drop him, I'd tell him to drop her straight away.
Either you like someone or you don't. Marriage is entirely irrelevant to this.
I called off my engagement because as soon as a ring was on her finger, she completely changed. Became extremely controlling and combative. It was her second engagement but never married. The guy before me figured it out too.
Art of the Deal.
Why marry? So this woman that clearly has no respect for him can divorce rape him as she walks away?
Let me translate woman speak for you:
"As patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long." = I finally got myself to a place that I am no longer financially dependent upon him.
It doesn't take 11 years to realize someone has no fight in them. You should have a good idea within 11 minutes.
She takes no responsibility whatsoever. The "real" men she wants aren't going to have anything to do with her.
Ding. Women have men sized up in the first date or two. It doesn't take 11 yrs. She's part of the problem too.
no you defending a Biden cuck?
Please I bet you don't like it when women say "all men are the same" so don't assume all women are the same.
Where do you see him defending the Biden fag? They can both suck.
yeah, you are right he did not defend the Biden fag but he DID insult the patriot lady. He is just projecting his own issues with women on the girl, he doesn't even know her in real life.
You were raised by a single mom.
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I was raised by a strong dad and a loving mother, perfect balance. They are still together after more than 30 years of marriage. I follow their example and I am married too, 7 years this year. Best years of my life.
Lol man I remember back in 2013 when stories like this were the craziest culture war issues we had to contend with... Then boom...
She’s a guy so...