This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.
Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.
I am a guy, and the it is all stacked hugely in our favor. Women that want families have a pretty small window to make that happen, all the while having to deal with man-boys that just want to fuck them and not marry them, and before they know it, it's too late. One of her great life goals flushed down the toilet because she fell in love with the wrong guy.
Yeah get married to the wrong woman and watch everything you value get destroyed. I've seen it enough times.
You sound like a white knight with little to no experience with women. You sure yo have the wrong forum? Guess what, if a woman starts dating at 18 she has plenty of time to figure out who the smart marriage material guys are. Unless she's dumb enough to date the same guy for 17+ years. The women who find out it's too late are generally leftist libtards who ride the caulk carousel for a good decade and a half and then try and find a quality guy. The problem is that the quality guys are taken and the ones left know they're ho's and trash.
You sound like these very women. Making idiotic excuses.
Lol. Caulk carousel.
If she’s gonna ride it may as well be yours
"Eventually you realize she was never really yours, it was just your turn."
Difference is she isn't on the hook to lose everything she owns.
On the flip side, men have to deal with women wanting a family in the small window they have available, whether the man wants it or not. If she thinks he can pay, she'll have the child.
Then there are the men that want a family, find a woman that wants a family, have a family then.. she drops him. No more access to the kids, but fuck yes he's going to have to pay for them.
Sure, there are also the men that pump & dump. There are also laws requiring them to pay for the children they've created. Good luck finding the laws against paternity fraud, let alone a DA willing to prosecute it.
That is a peril, and you need to be mindful of that. My advice would be to only date women who don't want to have kids if you are anti-family. Leave those who do to find guys that will give them that family. Keep her trapped with you, she will either trap you back with an unwanted child that will likely drive you apart, or, as I pointed out originally, you will deprive her of something deeply important to her, as once she is over 30, that window is basically shut.
What woman today has a life goal of becoming a mother and house wife? NONE.
Why do you think millions of babies are killed every year?
If none of them have that goal, then why do millions of them get married and have kids every year? I would say of the women I know, most want that. But that is all beside the point. My statement was directed towards men, not women. If you are with a woman in her 20s and you know she wants a family and you don't, then let her go so she can find someone who can give her what she wants before its too late for her. To not do it is just cruel.
You should also spend time thinking about what you really want from life, and where you see yourself in five, ten, twenty years. Are you planning to be that 50 year old guy in the nightclub chasing 20-year old tail, or do you see yourself with a family of your own? What about when you are 70?