This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.
Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.
This is the problem, and should have been a huge red flag.
Any tool not willing to step up for 11 years ain't a man.
Boom. There it is. Marry the woman or GTFO and stop wasting her time.
Why marry? So this woman that clearly has no respect for him can divorce rape him as she walks away?
Let me translate woman speak for you:
"As patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long." = I finally got myself to a place that I am no longer financially dependent upon him.
It doesn't take 11 years to realize someone has no fight in them. You should have a good idea within 11 minutes.
She takes no responsibility whatsoever. The "real" men she wants aren't going to have anything to do with her.
Ding. Women have men sized up in the first date or two. It doesn't take 11 yrs. She's part of the problem too.