This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.
Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.
We tend to make excuses for the men we love and hang on for a long time until we break. I read through a lot of hateful comments - some which have merit but some that don't have anything to do with your situation. There are plenty of amazing wonderful couples out there who are married and have the same values. You will find it but take your 11 years as a learning experience. Your time is precious!