This has been brewing for a while but the political stuff was the nail in the coffin for our relationship. It hurts to say it. I love the guy. But I can't be with someone who has zero fight in them and zero patriotism. I mean with as patriotic as I am now I can't believe it lasted this long. Can't wait to get out there and date REAL manly men lol.
Sorry for this post. I'm just a little sad and needed to vent.
When mom and dad split up it's the kids who usually suffer most. And while we like to pretend it's so unfair to men, if not for disincentives to divorce we might have even more irresponsibility and the state providing a shifty substitute for a dad still at least kicking in for his own kids. Look at Steve Jobs slandering the mother of his first child and refusing support and involvement, took court ordered paternity test to start to get that guy to step up.
And in most cases the kids don't want to be put in the spot of picking a parent so we flawed as family court is it does at least provide some structure. And in general women are more nurturing and patient with daily childcare duties.
Sorry bro but this is so extremely flawed, you have no idea. Stories about boxers and fighters getting their champion title belts taken away from them make me want to hurl. That’s not fair. No matter how you spin it, that is not fair. Child support is raised exponentially to screw the man far more than the woman. Why should a man be paying $7,000 a month for 1 child when said child doesn’t even cost HALF of that?
I’ll tell you why—it’s because these laws are gynocentric bullshit.
Also, women are NOT more nurturing and patient with childcare duties, that’s another bullshit societal trope that is completely false. Women commit filicide more often than men do. That alone destroys the wOmYn aRe mOrE nUrTuRiNg narrative.
Men commit over 95% of all murders last I checked. The reason we hear about sensational cases of moms killing kids is that it is actually rare. But if you have a psycho raising kids alone the chance of something horrible goes up. We dads are vital, but don't let the extreme incel rhetoric infect you. Mothers generally care more closely for far more time than dads who of course play a crucial role but are out of the home more. If you don't appreciate what moms do I am sorry for your childhood.
Bro, men are simply put in situations where they'd have to kill much more often than women. And women do kill too lol it's just not directly (instead of murder, they'll try to cause a suicide, for example). Saying this stuff, especially as it pertains to filicide, is NOT incel rhetoric because incels don't talk about this stuff. Just because someone paints women in a negative light doesn't mean they are an incel, that's the weakest attempt at rationalizing away an argument that I've ever heard. Moms don't do as much as a dad lol I'm sorry to say. If you think that they do, then you're simply brainwashed or pussy-whipped.