Don't be discouraged. Lots of women enjoy talking and flirting if you're charismatic and can hold a conversation. I don't doubt most people prefer in person and don't let the jealous, angry, bitter old women that made that stupid Gillette video convince you otherwise. Some cities and regions are much more friendly than others though and some women will always be bitches or super on guard, but we're men and we have to have thick skin or nothing gets done.