This should be told to every young man ever. I did and had a kid with one. 18 years of hell pure hell dealing with her. Support,legal fees, police,judges,lawyers. Have a distant relationship with him because his mom portrayed me and my family as evil. He turned out better than I thought, but mega selfish and manipulate like his mom. Never stick your dick in crazy ever ever ever.
Yeah, I think you are right. I had mad crushes on more than a few crazy girls.
Another thing, is the crazy ones have a LOT of personality, and aren't afraid to show it. Now, this sometimes takes the bad places..... Weird bedrooms, drugs, but they still stand out from the crowd. A lot of wallflowers are wallflowers because there isn't much going on inside.
A crazy bisexual woman once tried to latch onto me and I couldn't believe the tactical way she tried to stay in front of my face and stare at me as if I was everything. At that moment, I realized what men are up against with predatory females, and how a less aware person could fall for the flattery. When I told her I wasn't interested, she immediately took the guy I was after, just to punish me. I was frantic for his welfare but there was nothing I could do.
Yeah I usually hear this from people who have never been with a normal, stable, sane, traditional woman.
Having gone through a period of hedonism in my life and then having gone through a spiritual reformation as I moved out of Jewish atheism into Christianity, I can tell you:
Go find your woman at church. Get a decent, honest, impeccable woman with integrity. You will never. Ever. Ever. Want to fuck anyone else again.
My wife is super cute, I mean she really is a doll, doesn’t dress act behave or talk like a porn star.
In my line of work I meet a number of younger women who think that because I am middle-aged and my wife is middle-aged that they have a shot. They don’t. They can’t even imagine the shit I’ve been through with this woman. They are amateurs and she is a professional.
She is very conservative, more so than me, prudish in someways and the exact opposite in others. She’s a soldier. These 23, 25-year-old women that think they have a chance with me because they are hot slut pigs can’t even wash my wife’s panties.
And she’s a good girl. Very good girl. She made me a much better man. I’m still a piece of shit but at least I’m trying. A man earns a woman for the rest of his life. She’s worth earning.
Your post brings tears to my eyes. I try to explain to younger men the need for celibacy before marriage and what it will mean to their level of satisfaction in marriage, loyalty, fidelity, and sanity. I wish more people understood and believed what you do without experiencing the hell first.
It gets way worse for them when they hit 40. The desperation is real. I watch them all the time around me throwing themselves at any man who even looks at them, married or not. They smell their retirement alone barreling down the tracks at them, at full speed.
I want to meet a church woman, someone conservative. I was raised in a Christian church. But I am agnostic. I would love to go back for the people, but I can't lie that in still a complete Christian
Haha my parents don't get why I haven't knocked some gal up and started a family yet, because I got fairly lucky with looks. They don't realize that times have changed so much with online dating, finding a decent girl without an insane amount of issues or a very promiscuous lifestyle is a damn needle in a haystack.
Work, motorbikes, fishing and gaming it is for this young man at the moment
Gaming isn't a bad hobby as long as you limit yourself with it. I'm Canadian so there's a lot of time where it's just fucking freezing. As I'm writing this it's -25 C (-14F) outside.
I appreciate the advice but sometimes we need to bunker down inside haha
Set yourself with investments that'll pay off for early retirement. Divided stocks with DRIP and keep it rolling. Wish I was savvy at 20 and did this instead of "living it up" as much. Some was a bit self medicating due to crazy town with kids mom. I'll say rural areas have more "well raised" people. Guys and girls. Better values. I hate dating and kind of always ended up with someone.
Funny enough she isn't. Just borderline personality. Her dad is an old navy man, though just as nuts as her. Wierd fucking relationship with her dad. Controlling in every way.
Been there with my kid's mom and BPD. Its brutal. Someone needs to sit down and warn people about things like personality disorders. No one ever told me.
I have 2 younger kids, though amicably divorced. Their mom has her master's in psychology and used to go into homes with kids on the spectrum. She will make sure our kids are completely aware. She also got a taste of my older sons moms craziness. It's a shame really. I have a good relationship with my exwife as long as we stick to the kids.
Not all. My GF is super cool. She's divorced and her ex turned nuts. She works hard and we communicate well and have fun. She gives me what I need and I pay it back in kind. We were friends for years and kinda ended up both single and it organically turned into this. Who says friends shouldn't date?
I'm responsible for my own actions. I'm not bailing like that even if she's crazy. I just hope I had some kind of positive influence on him. After an ugly custody battle when he was 13 he didn't want to me talk much. He's now 18 and we are trying to talk and spend some time. Kids need dads, even at a distance.
This should be told to every young man ever. I did and had a kid with one. 18 years of hell pure hell dealing with her. Support,legal fees, police,judges,lawyers. Have a distant relationship with him because his mom portrayed me and my family as evil. He turned out better than I thought, but mega selfish and manipulate like his mom. Never stick your dick in crazy ever ever ever.
Trouble is, crazy is actually pretty attractive. Dunno why.
But he who has not had a thing for someone crazy is a rare man indeed.
Ask James Woods. Sean Young tried to ruin him.
She was cute back in the day.
Finkle is Einhorn, Einhorn is Finkle!
Like hunting tigers.
It's the energy that's attractive. Crazy is cheap energy - like junk food compared to filet mignon.
Yeah, I think you are right. I had mad crushes on more than a few crazy girls.
Another thing, is the crazy ones have a LOT of personality, and aren't afraid to show it. Now, this sometimes takes the bad places..... Weird bedrooms, drugs, but they still stand out from the crowd. A lot of wallflowers are wallflowers because there isn't much going on inside.
It can be easy to mistake boring for deep.
The energy, and they make hooking up really, really easy when they set their sights on you.
A crazy bisexual woman once tried to latch onto me and I couldn't believe the tactical way she tried to stay in front of my face and stare at me as if I was everything. At that moment, I realized what men are up against with predatory females, and how a less aware person could fall for the flattery. When I told her I wasn't interested, she immediately took the guy I was after, just to punish me. I was frantic for his welfare but there was nothing I could do.
Yea, gotta say sometimes you can't help it. Crazy is wild in bed.
Yeah I usually hear this from people who have never been with a normal, stable, sane, traditional woman.
Having gone through a period of hedonism in my life and then having gone through a spiritual reformation as I moved out of Jewish atheism into Christianity, I can tell you:
Go find your woman at church. Get a decent, honest, impeccable woman with integrity. You will never. Ever. Ever. Want to fuck anyone else again.
My wife is super cute, I mean she really is a doll, doesn’t dress act behave or talk like a porn star.
In my line of work I meet a number of younger women who think that because I am middle-aged and my wife is middle-aged that they have a shot. They don’t. They can’t even imagine the shit I’ve been through with this woman. They are amateurs and she is a professional.
She is very conservative, more so than me, prudish in someways and the exact opposite in others. She’s a soldier. These 23, 25-year-old women that think they have a chance with me because they are hot slut pigs can’t even wash my wife’s panties.
And she’s a good girl. Very good girl. She made me a much better man. I’m still a piece of shit but at least I’m trying. A man earns a woman for the rest of his life. She’s worth earning.
Your post brings tears to my eyes. I try to explain to younger men the need for celibacy before marriage and what it will mean to their level of satisfaction in marriage, loyalty, fidelity, and sanity. I wish more people understood and believed what you do without experiencing the hell first.
It gets way worse for them when they hit 40. The desperation is real. I watch them all the time around me throwing themselves at any man who even looks at them, married or not. They smell their retirement alone barreling down the tracks at them, at full speed.
I want to meet a church woman, someone conservative. I was raised in a Christian church. But I am agnostic. I would love to go back for the people, but I can't lie that in still a complete Christian
Sixteen years with my owner, that’s how I feel about her.
The crazy chicks are usually better in the sack. It still isn’t worth it.
Once again... I’m with you.
Haha my parents don't get why I haven't knocked some gal up and started a family yet, because I got fairly lucky with looks. They don't realize that times have changed so much with online dating, finding a decent girl without an insane amount of issues or a very promiscuous lifestyle is a damn needle in a haystack.
Work, motorbikes, fishing and gaming it is for this young man at the moment
Swap gaming for a hobby that gets you out meeting people.
Climbing, bikes, social sports etc.
Gaming isn't a bad hobby as long as you limit yourself with it. I'm Canadian so there's a lot of time where it's just fucking freezing. As I'm writing this it's -25 C (-14F) outside.
I appreciate the advice but sometimes we need to bunker down inside haha
Set yourself with investments that'll pay off for early retirement. Divided stocks with DRIP and keep it rolling. Wish I was savvy at 20 and did this instead of "living it up" as much. Some was a bit self medicating due to crazy town with kids mom. I'll say rural areas have more "well raised" people. Guys and girls. Better values. I hate dating and kind of always ended up with someone.
She sounds like a typical democrat.
Funny enough she isn't. Just borderline personality. Her dad is an old navy man, though just as nuts as her. Wierd fucking relationship with her dad. Controlling in every way.
Been there with my kid's mom and BPD. Its brutal. Someone needs to sit down and warn people about things like personality disorders. No one ever told me.
I have 2 younger kids, though amicably divorced. Their mom has her master's in psychology and used to go into homes with kids on the spectrum. She will make sure our kids are completely aware. She also got a taste of my older sons moms craziness. It's a shame really. I have a good relationship with my exwife as long as we stick to the kids.
To follow your rule would mean no pussy....ever. Every woman is crazy to some degree.
Above a 7 crazy is a no go. 4-7 is your go zone.
No such thing as below a 4 crazy
Not all. My GF is super cool. She's divorced and her ex turned nuts. She works hard and we communicate well and have fun. She gives me what I need and I pay it back in kind. We were friends for years and kinda ended up both single and it organically turned into this. Who says friends shouldn't date?
You told her your real name???
(I feel for ya, man. I came *that* close... )
I'm responsible for my own actions. I'm not bailing like that even if she's crazy. I just hope I had some kind of positive influence on him. After an ugly custody battle when he was 13 he didn't want to me talk much. He's now 18 and we are trying to talk and spend some time. Kids need dads, even at a distance.
I was joking, you know. I used to tell my boss "I always give 'em your name." He wasn't amused.