Yeah I usually hear this from people who have never been with a normal, stable, sane, traditional woman.
Having gone through a period of hedonism in my life and then having gone through a spiritual reformation as I moved out of Jewish atheism into Christianity, I can tell you:
Go find your woman at church. Get a decent, honest, impeccable woman with integrity. You will never. Ever. Ever. Want to fuck anyone else again.
My wife is super cute, I mean she really is a doll, doesn’t dress act behave or talk like a porn star.
In my line of work I meet a number of younger women who think that because I am middle-aged and my wife is middle-aged that they have a shot. They don’t. They can’t even imagine the shit I’ve been through with this woman. They are amateurs and she is a professional.
She is very conservative, more so than me, prudish in someways and the exact opposite in others. She’s a soldier. These 23, 25-year-old women that think they have a chance with me because they are hot slut pigs can’t even wash my wife’s panties.
And she’s a good girl. Very good girl. She made me a much better man. I’m still a piece of shit but at least I’m trying. A man earns a woman for the rest of his life. She’s worth earning.
Your post brings tears to my eyes. I try to explain to younger men the need for celibacy before marriage and what it will mean to their level of satisfaction in marriage, loyalty, fidelity, and sanity. I wish more people understood and believed what you do without experiencing the hell first.
I advise the following to young males with a conscious:
: First friend, then lover (in that order and for as long as it takes for the
female to prove her friendship with you).
: Date and marry only respectable females. A respectable female is one
who is at least civil and Samaritan to all, at all times. Respect is earned
and not an unalienable right.
: Never defer to the needs and wants of a female at the expense of your
own.
: Love is that condition where the happiness of the person in question is
essential to your own. Love ends when the happiness of the female in
question ceases to be essential to you own.
: First love, then compromise (in that order).
: Preserve and protect your 'family jewels' and their gift of life, at all times.
Do not give them to anyone other than the mother of your children.
It gets way worse for them when they hit 40. The desperation is real. I watch them all the time around me throwing themselves at any man who even looks at them, married or not. They smell their retirement alone barreling down the tracks at them, at full speed.
I want to meet a church woman, someone conservative. I was raised in a Christian church. But I am agnostic. I would love to go back for the people, but I can't lie that in still a complete Christian
Yeah I usually hear this from people who have never been with a normal, stable, sane, traditional woman.
Having gone through a period of hedonism in my life and then having gone through a spiritual reformation as I moved out of Jewish atheism into Christianity, I can tell you:
Go find your woman at church. Get a decent, honest, impeccable woman with integrity. You will never. Ever. Ever. Want to fuck anyone else again.
My wife is super cute, I mean she really is a doll, doesn’t dress act behave or talk like a porn star.
In my line of work I meet a number of younger women who think that because I am middle-aged and my wife is middle-aged that they have a shot. They don’t. They can’t even imagine the shit I’ve been through with this woman. They are amateurs and she is a professional.
She is very conservative, more so than me, prudish in someways and the exact opposite in others. She’s a soldier. These 23, 25-year-old women that think they have a chance with me because they are hot slut pigs can’t even wash my wife’s panties.
And she’s a good girl. Very good girl. She made me a much better man. I’m still a piece of shit but at least I’m trying. A man earns a woman for the rest of his life. She’s worth earning.
Your post brings tears to my eyes. I try to explain to younger men the need for celibacy before marriage and what it will mean to their level of satisfaction in marriage, loyalty, fidelity, and sanity. I wish more people understood and believed what you do without experiencing the hell first.
They should know that good, stable, sane women will not get with a slutty man. Dirty dick is just gross.
I advise the following to young males with a conscious: : First friend, then lover (in that order and for as long as it takes for the female to prove her friendship with you). : Date and marry only respectable females. A respectable female is one who is at least civil and Samaritan to all, at all times. Respect is earned and not an unalienable right. : Never defer to the needs and wants of a female at the expense of your own. : Love is that condition where the happiness of the person in question is essential to your own. Love ends when the happiness of the female in question ceases to be essential to you own. : First love, then compromise (in that order). : Preserve and protect your 'family jewels' and their gift of life, at all times. Do not give them to anyone other than the mother of your children.
For the benefit of our boys and men, I ask that you join and support the National Coalition for Men at: https://ncfm.org and the National Center for Men at: https://nationalcenterformen.org.
Thank you.
Yeah, I've always heard that advice too: befriend the person first.
It gets way worse for them when they hit 40. The desperation is real. I watch them all the time around me throwing themselves at any man who even looks at them, married or not. They smell their retirement alone barreling down the tracks at them, at full speed.
I want to meet a church woman, someone conservative. I was raised in a Christian church. But I am agnostic. I would love to go back for the people, but I can't lie that in still a complete Christian
I suppose you can find a church that will let you attend if you're honest that your an agnostic.
Sixteen years with my owner, that’s how I feel about her.