Your post brings tears to my eyes. I try to explain to younger men the need for celibacy before marriage and what it will mean to their level of satisfaction in marriage, loyalty, fidelity, and sanity. I wish more people understood and believed what you do without experiencing the hell first.
I advise the following to young males with a conscious:
: First friend, then lover (in that order and for as long as it takes for the
female to prove her friendship with you).
: Date and marry only respectable females. A respectable female is one
who is at least civil and Samaritan to all, at all times. Respect is earned
and not an unalienable right.
: Never defer to the needs and wants of a female at the expense of your
own.
: Love is that condition where the happiness of the person in question is
essential to your own. Love ends when the happiness of the female in
question ceases to be essential to you own.
: First love, then compromise (in that order).
: Preserve and protect your 'family jewels' and their gift of life, at all times.
Do not give them to anyone other than the mother of your children.
Your post brings tears to my eyes. I try to explain to younger men the need for celibacy before marriage and what it will mean to their level of satisfaction in marriage, loyalty, fidelity, and sanity. I wish more people understood and believed what you do without experiencing the hell first.
They should know that good, stable, sane women will not get with a slutty man. Dirty dick is just gross.
I advise the following to young males with a conscious: : First friend, then lover (in that order and for as long as it takes for the female to prove her friendship with you). : Date and marry only respectable females. A respectable female is one who is at least civil and Samaritan to all, at all times. Respect is earned and not an unalienable right. : Never defer to the needs and wants of a female at the expense of your own. : Love is that condition where the happiness of the person in question is essential to your own. Love ends when the happiness of the female in question ceases to be essential to you own. : First love, then compromise (in that order). : Preserve and protect your 'family jewels' and their gift of life, at all times. Do not give them to anyone other than the mother of your children.
For the benefit of our boys and men, I ask that you join and support the National Coalition for Men at: https://ncfm.org and the National Center for Men at: https://nationalcenterformen.org.
Thank you.
Yeah, I've always heard that advice too: befriend the person first.