I advise the following to young males with a conscious: : First friend, then lover (in that order and for as long as it takes for the female to prove her friendship with you). : Date and marry only respectable females. A respectable female is one who is at least civil and Samaritan to all, at all times. Respect is earned and not an unalienable right. : Never defer to the needs and wants of a female at the expense of your own. : Love is that condition where the happiness of the person in question is essential to your own. Love ends when the happiness of the female in question ceases to be essential to you own. : First love, then compromise (in that order). : Preserve and protect your 'family jewels' and their gift of life, at all times. Do not give them to anyone other than the mother of your children.

For the benefit of our boys and men, I ask that you join and support the National Coalition for Men at: https://ncfm.org and the National Center for Men at: https://nationalcenterformen.org.

Thank you.