If she finds a better paying job than me, I’ll stay home.

Men not providing is one of the many reasons for divorces. Unless you want your kids on the weekends, if you're lucky, and giving her most of your pay check anyway along with the house, don't get into that situation.

And before anyone tries the "conservative women aren't like that!", yes "conservative" women are the ones that are more likely to file for that reason because they are "traditional" and will fuck you sideways if you dare to not uphold your side of the compact while they let theirs slip.