Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
Too eager. She could tell. Don't text her until she texts you again. Be willing to wait about 3 months. Only give one word answers... make her ask you if anything is wrong. Say, "everything great! why?" Then go silent for a week.
Whaaaatt... this is a crazy amount of game-playing! Why can't OP u/Yourowngreatgrandma just straight-up ask the girl what the problem is, and tell her to let him know? And remind her politely that her disappearance is mysterious and that it would be considerate of her to let him know what's wrong? Why should he have to wait?? And play all these dumbass games? He's not her servant. Straight-up tell her what the issue is and that he would really appreciate a response as that would be the considerate thing to do on her part.
Terrible. Alphas are naturals at game. Women crave games. Tested and proven.
So what if she craves games? Right now, he's ALREADY forced into playing HER game. And he LOST.
Make her play HIS game by reminding her very politely that she's being a total bitch. That's why politeness is very important. Give her some emotional blackmail. Let her know that she's being immature and childish. Make her feel guilty and ashamed.
You guys want OP to play HER game and run away like a frightened girl. NAAAH. He's got to stand his ground and confront her.
Right. But he can turn the franchise around. You're reading me wrong. Confront her? Yeah, women love to be confronted. lol
And I disagree... she's not being a bitch. She doesn't want to hurt him by leading him on.
imo....people are too focused on "playing games" and get too caught up in shit like that instead of just living life and being natural with each other. humans over think A LOT of things sometimes.
Well, whatever OP is doing, didn't work.
It's my opinion that the whole PUA is likely bullshit, any time a guy ran game on a girl and she bought into it, the odds are more likely that she liked him for other reasons. Girls just don't think that way, the only thing that really matters is emotion/connection. Nor do guys think that way, when you see a girl you're into is it because she had some well planned out way of carrying herself and talking? No it's cause you saw her face or her body and the bells run that you wanted to fuck her
Terrible advice. Patton was right.
Lol false. She got away with it! She's won this round. Don't you see that?
Being polite and being needy are not the same thing. He's got to be politely aggressive and let her know she needs to step up and be an adult and show him the basic courtesy of being an adult and saying what went wrong or saying goodbye.
Right now, she's the winner because she's forced him to comply with HER game.
Chasing dead ends is unproductive. Option 1 she's just gone. Option 2 she dates some other losers, gets burned/humbled, decides to give OP call out of desperation some time down the road.
If she bounced it's a no go unless something changes. OP piling it on heavy makes it worse, not better. He probably ought to move on all together never giving it a second thought.