Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
Yuck... that's needy beta shit. That's what soyboys do. It never works, but they keep doing it thinking, "She'll see how beautiful I am inside and we'll be star-crossed lovers after she's done banging that jerkass alpha,,, she's just going through a phase, but we're meant for each other."
NOOOO. Put the ball in her court. Make her feel guilty. This guy wants a reason for why it all went to shit. He needs to know. And that's perfectly normal. He wants closure and answers. That's all. This is a way to get answers from her and refuse to submit to HER nasty game of ghosting and abandoning.
He should NOT wait for her AT ALL. Get aggressive but in a polite way to make her reply. Then move on.
SHE is the alpha now. Don't you see?
SHE is the alpha by dumping him mysteriously and leaving him puzzled and bewildered.
He's got to get politely aggressive and let her know 'gently' and politely that she needs to step up and be an adult and speak up and say goodbye like a grown woman.
It went to shit because she already knew she could have him. No challenge. That immediately makes them think, "This guy has nothing going on and probably wants a commitment and he doesn't even know me. I am insecure garbage... he must be desperate."
Who cares? SHE needs to be the one to have to say it! Why should HE be the one to speculate and come up with theories??
What you're saying is ALL theory! Make HER say what's up. Put her in that position. Let her feel uncomfortable. Make HER say it. You're falling into her shit trap by playing HER dumbass game of formulating theories to cope with the mystery.
I feel like you're not responding to what I say. Are you talking to the voices in your head?