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posted ago by YourOwnGreatGrandma ago by YourOwnGreatGrandma +54 / -1

Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.

Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.

I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.

I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.

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MikelovesTrump 2 points ago +3 / -1

Sounds like you’re not man enough for a Trump gal. Trump gals don’t want a limp wristed liberal. You need to sack the fuck up and get some confidence. Your dick should be entering the room 2 minutes before the rest of your body. Start working out, start lifting, start fucking shit up.

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fuckapplelol 2 points ago +2 / -0

"Your dick should be entering the room 2 minutes before the rest of your body. " im stealing this hahahah I think the guy needs to just build up confidence and fucking relax. Second the weight lifting, gave me huge confidence boost when I started 2 years back.

do not be desperate, dont appear easy to have

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fuckapplelol 1 point ago +1 / -0

Do you exericse?

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riesling 3 points ago +3 / -0

50 pushups is hot. Don't give up on yourself so easily.

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fuckapplelol 1 point ago +1 / -0

Is your work physically strenuous, and how much time do you have in the morning and night? A couple months ago I split my workout (i do mainly weight lifting) into two chunks, 45 min in the morning and night. Waking up and exercising is a great feeling and a perfect start to the day. You really need to get back in the habit, as it seems as if you are becoming defeatist. Haven't been around long but women do not like the defeatist attitude. You need to rebuild yourself, and its up to you to do so. That's why we are here, is because we believe in personal responsibility. Once you build it back up, they will come again.

Start planning how to do so, now. Right now