Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
So what if she craves games? Right now, he's ALREADY forced into playing HER game. And he LOST.
Make her play HIS game by reminding her very politely that she's being a total bitch. That's why politeness is very important. Give her some emotional blackmail. Let her know that she's being immature and childish. Make her feel guilty and ashamed.
You guys want OP to play HER game and run away like a frightened girl. NAAAH. He's got to stand his ground and confront her.
Right. But he can turn the franchise around. You're reading me wrong. Confront her? Yeah, women love to be confronted. lol
Lmao, YOU are the one talking about alphas vs betas. So why are YOU afraid to confront a woman albeit politely?
There's no reason to. A fear of loss is the desired result. You don't react to what she's putting out. That's beta. It's more like Damone's 5 Point Plant...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zl-CriM6vx0
Look buddy, you don't get to switch back and forth between stooping irrationally to personal insults and then back to some evidence-based form of argument.
Pick a lane and stick to it. Either ad hominem in which case you'll get fucking shredded for being an asshole for no reason or provocation. Or logical argument. But you picked ad hominem. Bad call, chief.
And I disagree... she's not being a bitch. She doesn't want to hurt him by leading him on.
So what? Why are you making excuses for her now?
You're the one rushing to her defense.
AGAIN, let HER be the one to give the explanation. Why are you white-knighting her now?? This is bizarre.
Not at all. Calling bullshit shows you care too much. That is anti-seductive.