Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
she probably thought you were too ugly for her, serious, it is what it is
Humphrey Bogart was not good-looking or funny or even charming, yet he was one of the most attractive leads of his time because he exuded confidence and determination. If you think it's too late to develop these qualities, then why not just seek someone who's feeling as down as you are and be each other's support and lift each other up? Then you can be you and not have anxiety about failure to impress.
Dude don't listen to that guy. This is awful. Jesus Christ. I never thought I'd say this but sometimes women are soooo much nicer. Fuck, dude. Just stop with this 'I'm so ugly compared to her' nonsense. Jesus Christ. Just disregard that shit. It's BAD for you.