Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
Is your work physically strenuous, and how much time do you have in the morning and night? A couple months ago I split my workout (i do mainly weight lifting) into two chunks, 45 min in the morning and night. Waking up and exercising is a great feeling and a perfect start to the day. You really need to get back in the habit, as it seems as if you are becoming defeatist. Haven't been around long but women do not like the defeatist attitude. You need to rebuild yourself, and its up to you to do so. That's why we are here, is because we believe in personal responsibility. Once you build it back up, they will come again.
Start planning how to do so, now. Right now
the man balds because of his extreme testosterone
God made you bald so you should experiment with how to do the look; you probably have to learn how to embrace it.
You got to start taking some small steps to rebuilding yourself. Also, in my experience, weightlifting gets your minds off things. Energy will compound energy. As much as I like this site, you should try replacing your time on this site with these things.
Start planning, and by God's grace you can turn things around. Don't wait for something to happen, do it.
Shave your fucking dome brother. The first time some says something about your bald head tell them to go fuck themselves. Women love dudes with no hair.
Just shooting straight here brother but 50 hrs a week isn’t shit. If you’re watching any news then turn that shit off. Only put positive in. Eat more fruits, veggies and natural food. Notice I didn’t say organic or vegetarian. The more food that you eat that has one ingredient the better for your body. Also you either need a Vitamin D supplement or a good dose of sunshine because you have the winter blues,
Get a close buzz cut. Guys look so good with buzz cuts.