Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
You should only have women answer this. Men are clueless on this. - Did you meet her in person prior to the “date?” Or was this online/phone until the date? -How much time elapsed before the date and since she disappeared?
I replied in another comment after I read some of your replies so I’ll just add this- 2 days ago? This level of panic and it was 2 days? You’ve known her 4 days? I mean it could even be she had some free time then and was like cool new friend to chat to and then you got together and she just wasn’t feeling it. Or maybe is recently out of a relationship and upon meeting one and one was just not there. It is not that you aren’t attractive enough between three days. If she liked you the first time you look fine the second. Or she never saw it as more but you did. In any case don’t get attached next time based on knowing someone for under a week. Reign it in. Don’t ever play it cool but don’t let you imagination run away in a short time.
Here’s the comment. It might be in reply to another commenter. https://patriots.win/p/12hRLZeTwc/x/c/4Dx4Llrpoor