Got myself extremely hyped up to go on a date with a girl I met who was exactly my type (yes she supports Trump) and seemingly out of my league. Everything seemed to be going very well, she was texting me constantly and trying to make plans with me after I first asked if she wanted to go out.
Then we went on what I thought was a “date” but perhaps wasn’t. After we were done eating she said she was going home about 10 min later.
I don’t know what went wrong and I guess it doesn’t really matter now. But I really feel like shit and idk what to do. My job makes me stressed and sometimes I think about destroying my career rather than showing up for work on Monday. The election has been destroying my positive mindset in every way imaginable. I was so happy when I thought I might be building a relationship with a girl who I felt was a perfect fit for me and thought things might be turning around. Now I feel much worse than before I met her... even feeling worse than when Trump lost the election.
I know this is a bit pathetic but I really don’t know what else to do but ask for advice here. I appreciate any advice you can give me for dealing with this situation. PS no Hillary, I am not suicidal.
Whaaaatt... this is a crazy amount of game-playing! Why can't OP u/Yourowngreatgrandma just straight-up ask the girl what the problem is, and tell her to let him know? And remind her politely that her disappearance is mysterious and that it would be considerate of her to let him know what's wrong? Why should he have to wait?? And play all these dumbass games? He's not her servant. Straight-up tell her what the issue is and that he would really appreciate a response as that would be the considerate thing to do on her part.
Terrible. Alphas are naturals at game. Women crave games. Tested and proven.
imo....people are too focused on "playing games" and get too caught up in shit like that instead of just living life and being natural with each other. humans over think A LOT of things sometimes.
It's my opinion that the whole PUA is likely bullshit, any time a guy ran game on a girl and she bought into it, the odds are more likely that she liked him for other reasons. Girls just don't think that way, the only thing that really matters is emotion/connection. Nor do guys think that way, when you see a girl you're into is it because she had some well planned out way of carrying herself and talking? No it's cause you saw her face or her body and the bells run that you wanted to fuck her