I was a single mother. You presume that all "single mothers" did so by choice.
I was married to the father of both my sons. I didn't ask him to die and leave me to raise our 3,4 yr old boys by myself. That was never the plan.
In my opinion widows are not the same as a single mom. Yes you ended up doing it all on your own, but you didn't start out intentionally disadvantaging your kids by having them outside of a marriage. I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm also a single mother made so by the death of my husband, left to raise a baby by myself. I'm sorry you also went through it. It's very hard grieving and raising children at the same time, knowing every milestone is being missed by their father.
How about the fathers that left and didn't care to deal with their children. Better yet, the ones that cheat and lie and break the relationship. I came from a single parent home and I can say the fathers are more likely to ruin the relationship/marriage.
Do you think in ghetto communities that the men are not walking away? I have been to family courts and watch many men, not give an ounce of care for their children. There are women that do this too, but for most of the many cases I have witnessed it was the men.
I gave her child support for years and even gave her a checkbook, because I work a lot and didn't want my kids to go without. She then told child support office that I wasn't paying. Started dating a black guy and my kids are leftys. I still see them every weekend and they hate their mom
When the kids grow into their own, they look back and realize who was actually there for them. It usually backfires on the person trying to control them. My nephew hates going to his mother's. He knows his father cares for him more.
Eh, nawwww....A system that provides financial incentives for a woman to have kids while not married OR to leave a relationship in order go gain income. While that same system is also incentivized to maximize money taken from the dad (Title IV federal funding). Then sprinkle in a culture that not only accepts but glorifies/praises such people THEN you get what ruined us.
Who created single moms? Single moms are a symptom of an underlying problem, they are not the cause. Lack of Christian morality. Universal suffrage. Communism. Women in the workforce. These are all things that lead to single moms and should be blamed for causing single moms.
I agree that somewhere along the way the sanctity of marriage, and morals was lost. I have only been married once and I work hard to keep my marriage a scared thing. Many don't though. I came from a broken home and I made sure to marry the right person for my lifetime.
Sometimes though, you truly can't keep a marriage together due to all the stuff going on in society.
I'm divorced. My ex-wife was a small town conservative woman and we loved each other. Then she went to grad school in a diff city where she lived with a feminist woman who subverted her values and turned her into a feminist. I was forced to divorce her because I was so unhappy in the marriage, it just hurt too much. She stopped caring about me and turned everything around on me as being oppressive to women and she used my care for her as leverage to maximize her power in the relationship. It became wholly toxic and I had to get out because it was destroying me emotionally.
Now at the time, I was younger and had no clue what exactly was going on. Today, I may have been able to combat the feminist woman's subversion of my ex-wife's values and I'd have stuck around to work toward getting my wife back. When I was married though, I didn't have the knowledge I have today and wasn't able to combat the poison that destroyed my marriage.
What I described happens to a lot of marriages and sometimes there's nothing anyone in the marriage can do to stop the eventually destruction of one's marriage. The values/beliefs that people are taught in society on the left are anti-marriage and again, lead to single moms.
I became a single mom at the age of 22. Birth control is not 100% effective and I am not 100% perfect. I was never on welfare. I worked hard to support me and my son. I met my husband when my son was 3 years old. We've been married for almost 20 years and he's been a great father to both our children- the one that is biologically his and the one that isn't.
Just keep in mind that you can't rail against abortion and rail against single mothers. People aren't perfect and accidents do happen. Making single mothers feel like shit isn't going to help the anti-abortion argument.
We rail against the fast food society that allows women to jump from man to man without consequences and the men and especially the children have to suffer in their wake and become destroyed to keep the wild women party funded.
I get that. And I'm not defending the "wild women" that jump from man to man and have 2, 3, 4, + kids out of wedlock with different dads. But lumping all single mothers into one group isn't fair. Neither is putting all the blame on thr women. Men can so no too. And if a man chooses to have sex with a woman who already has several kids with different guys then I'm going to put equal blame on him - the "wild man".
All the women in here need to get a grip. Single motherhood HAS done irreparable damage. That doesn't mean THE MOTHER is the one to blame every time. Jesus christ, calm the fuck down.
It's weak men. And a factory of weak men is single mothers. Regardless of if that situation is the fault of the mother or the father. But a boy raised by a single mother is more likely to repeat the cycle.
There's literally no reason to demonize it. Everyone wins when kids aren't being raised by single parents.
I mean. This dom is the side of politics countering the mainstream political narrative which has been anti men to the point where #killallmen unironically trended on twitter. So you're going to see more of the opposite of the mainstream. Comes with the territory, I'm afraid.
How about mothers that left to escape abusive men? Should they just let themselves and their children be abused?
Mothers who were cheated on? Widows? Abandoned?
Screw you and all your women hating friends. This is a trend on this site that is poisonous and needs to stop.
The issue is education. When you let a government be in control of teaching the children, how the hell do you not expect said government to use that to their advantage.
3rd wave feminism is cancer, but if you just start hating and blaming women, then you become the new cancer... the new oppressor. The cycle of attacking each other continues. The real issue does not get fixed.
We need to stop letting the government control the education of our youth.
I was a single mother. You presume that all "single mothers" did so by choice. I was married to the father of both my sons. I didn't ask him to die and leave me to raise our 3,4 yr old boys by myself. That was never the plan.
In my opinion widows are not the same as a single mom. Yes you ended up doing it all on your own, but you didn't start out intentionally disadvantaging your kids by having them outside of a marriage. I'm sorry for your loss.
☝️ Exactly this.
Your devotion will not go unnoticed.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
I'm also a single mother made so by the death of my husband, left to raise a baby by myself. I'm sorry you also went through it. It's very hard grieving and raising children at the same time, knowing every milestone is being missed by their father.
My condolences. I will pray for you!
How about the fathers that left and didn't care to deal with their children. Better yet, the ones that cheat and lie and break the relationship. I came from a single parent home and I can say the fathers are more likely to ruin the relationship/marriage.
They stepped off the head of household duty and became feminine. Women had no choice but to step up. Men and women are both to blame
My wife cheated on me, lied, called the cops , and took my kids.
I am not saying women are innocent, but in my family and friends families they are more likely to walk away from their children.
Do you think in ghetto communities that the men are not walking away? I have been to family courts and watch many men, not give an ounce of care for their children. There are women that do this too, but for most of the many cases I have witnessed it was the men.
I gave her child support for years and even gave her a checkbook, because I work a lot and didn't want my kids to go without. She then told child support office that I wasn't paying. Started dating a black guy and my kids are leftys. I still see them every weekend and they hate their mom
When the kids grow into their own, they look back and realize who was actually there for them. It usually backfires on the person trying to control them. My nephew hates going to his mother's. He knows his father cares for him more.
Eh, nawwww....A system that provides financial incentives for a woman to have kids while not married OR to leave a relationship in order go gain income. While that same system is also incentivized to maximize money taken from the dad (Title IV federal funding). Then sprinkle in a culture that not only accepts but glorifies/praises such people THEN you get what ruined us.
Also, women cheat almost as much as men...
https://www.cloudmind.info/who-cheats-the-most-in-a-relationship-men-or-women/
Rather than single out the women who stayed with their kids, I'd say broken families have killed the West.
Who created single moms? Single moms are a symptom of an underlying problem, they are not the cause. Lack of Christian morality. Universal suffrage. Communism. Women in the workforce. These are all things that lead to single moms and should be blamed for causing single moms.
I agree that somewhere along the way the sanctity of marriage, and morals was lost. I have only been married once and I work hard to keep my marriage a scared thing. Many don't though. I came from a broken home and I made sure to marry the right person for my lifetime.
Sometimes though, you truly can't keep a marriage together due to all the stuff going on in society.
I'm divorced. My ex-wife was a small town conservative woman and we loved each other. Then she went to grad school in a diff city where she lived with a feminist woman who subverted her values and turned her into a feminist. I was forced to divorce her because I was so unhappy in the marriage, it just hurt too much. She stopped caring about me and turned everything around on me as being oppressive to women and she used my care for her as leverage to maximize her power in the relationship. It became wholly toxic and I had to get out because it was destroying me emotionally.
Now at the time, I was younger and had no clue what exactly was going on. Today, I may have been able to combat the feminist woman's subversion of my ex-wife's values and I'd have stuck around to work toward getting my wife back. When I was married though, I didn't have the knowledge I have today and wasn't able to combat the poison that destroyed my marriage.
What I described happens to a lot of marriages and sometimes there's nothing anyone in the marriage can do to stop the eventually destruction of one's marriage. The values/beliefs that people are taught in society on the left are anti-marriage and again, lead to single moms.
I became a single mom at the age of 22. Birth control is not 100% effective and I am not 100% perfect. I was never on welfare. I worked hard to support me and my son. I met my husband when my son was 3 years old. We've been married for almost 20 years and he's been a great father to both our children- the one that is biologically his and the one that isn't.
Just keep in mind that you can't rail against abortion and rail against single mothers. People aren't perfect and accidents do happen. Making single mothers feel like shit isn't going to help the anti-abortion argument.
We rail against the fast food society that allows women to jump from man to man without consequences and the men and especially the children have to suffer in their wake and become destroyed to keep the wild women party funded.
I get that. And I'm not defending the "wild women" that jump from man to man and have 2, 3, 4, + kids out of wedlock with different dads. But lumping all single mothers into one group isn't fair. Neither is putting all the blame on thr women. Men can so no too. And if a man chooses to have sex with a woman who already has several kids with different guys then I'm going to put equal blame on him - the "wild man".
Know how to tell if a woman is a single mom? Don't worry... she'll tell ya.
Kek
That is not fair to say at all...
Shut up bitch.
deported.
To be fair, the government paid them to do it.
All the women in here need to get a grip. Single motherhood HAS done irreparable damage. That doesn't mean THE MOTHER is the one to blame every time. Jesus christ, calm the fuck down.
I think the women in here are tired of being targets on this site.
People here do not want women to vote and blame the state of the country on them.
You want to destroy a movement, tell half the people out there that they are to blame and not welcome simply due to gender.
Exactly. If I had to point to a couple of things that have ruined this country it is Marxism and corruption.
It's weak men. And a factory of weak men is single mothers. Regardless of if that situation is the fault of the mother or the father. But a boy raised by a single mother is more likely to repeat the cycle.
There's literally no reason to demonize it. Everyone wins when kids aren't being raised by single parents.
I mean. This dom is the side of politics countering the mainstream political narrative which has been anti men to the point where #killallmen unironically trended on twitter. So you're going to see more of the opposite of the mainstream. Comes with the territory, I'm afraid.
Which is why I am trying to fight it before it destroys our movement.
Pendulum swings. If we do not counter and redirect it now, it will end up growing and destroy MAGA from the inside.
This "movement" has it's roots in combatting feminism. Fighting it's roots IS destroying it. lol
Not if you attack women. You have to attack the movement and the cause of the movement. Identity politics is crap, no matter what side you are on.
Boy, shortsighted. Not every woman is a single mother by choice.
If you want to blame something blame welfare
Blame parents not teaching children that you stick together through thick and thin (minus domestic abuse)
3rd wave feminism has nothing to do with the downfall of the modern woman. No, nothing at all.
How about mothers that left to escape abusive men? Should they just let themselves and their children be abused?
Mothers who were cheated on? Widows? Abandoned?
Screw you and all your women hating friends. This is a trend on this site that is poisonous and needs to stop.
The issue is education. When you let a government be in control of teaching the children, how the hell do you not expect said government to use that to their advantage.
3rd wave feminism is cancer, but if you just start hating and blaming women, then you become the new cancer... the new oppressor. The cycle of attacking each other continues. The real issue does not get fixed.
We need to stop letting the government control the education of our youth.
That reminds me. When are the strip joints opening up???
There used to be ways to keep women in control. They no longer exist and these bitches run wild.