I matched with this super pretty girl a few days ago on tinder and we hung out i cooked her dinner watched a movie ect. She got mad when she saw my trump flag when she walked past my room. She asked how i could support such an evil man. I asked her what makes him so evil she sat there for awhile and said he ruined the us and hes a racist. I tokd her to say his policies that ruined America and how he was racist. She brought up the classic all mexicans are rapists i showed her the full clip she said she had no idea it was out of context. She couldnt name any executive orders or policies. I showed her all his accomplishments and the part of the Capitol speech where he says peacefully. Again she never saw either and she said she feels bad for blindly hating him and admitted she didnt look for the truth because of snopes
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University adds very little value for women. She's almost 99% chance better off not taking on the debt, marrying a man and having children then she is to attend university from both a happiness, overall life satisfaction and value perspective. But convincing an 18yo woman of that these days is tricky. They sometimes figure it out by their 30s when they've already gone through the modern process. I'm just saying if he can circumvent the process, that'll be great, otherwise she's going to be pretty high risk.
As someone who survived one of the most rabidly liberal universities, I disagree. As long as she sticks to a subject based on objective reason (STEM, economics, perhaps finance/business, etc), she'll be better off for it. Educated and intelligent mothers produce intelligent children. And if she's a person of good character worth marrying, the challenging experience of surviving college will only strengthen her character. Sheltered girls who become mothers don't educate their children well and that's how you get kids who become easily indoctrinated once they inevitably go off into the world.
I would say you're an exception not the rule. Expecting everyone to go through to come out as an exception leads to further degradation of society.
You can learn without attending university. University doesn't make your intelligent, you were already intelligent before. However university does give unintelligent people egos and over confidence which is a problem in our society. And let's be real STEM is not where the vast majority of women go. Judging by the likelihood scenario, she'll get a psych degree... Useless.
But that's precisely what uppie is saying. It's all in the course, and this extends to dudes as well. Anything other than objective sht is pointless and conducive of American derangement syndrome as well as several others..... But maths and the sciences? Mostly alright, imo. That being said, still be wise on "prestigious" means and what "prestige" actually does.
That might still be true, but if the 2+2=4 debate from this summer shows anything, it's that the CRT fucks and marxists are coming for the STEM departments.
Maybe you’re saying that BOTH men and women don’t need university for happiness, intelligence, and career. Everyone can achieve these outcomes on their own through other means.
That’s an excellent point.
I’ve struggled with the whole concept. As a STEM business owner, I’ve had the vast majority of young women leave to raise kids at home. (They were very talented employees)
I fully support it because I think it’s the best decision a parent can make and my wife chose to do the same thing and we’re better off for it.
The amount of debt they racked up just to work for a few years has continued to blow my mind. The problem is you don’t know who the 5-10% are that go on to have great careers. I’d never want to give them the advice to stay home and not go to college. All the others should save their money.
Very good point. There are 4 universities near me I would recommend. Berkeley and Stanford for STEM, (I'm well aware a lot of lunatics arise from their humanities programs... UC Davis and Fresno State for agriculture. Keep them based in those, and they're good. I was neighbors with a Davis enonogy graduate who was winemaster at a large Napa Valley winery.. He did well... My first daughter ignored all this and majored in art. (ceramics, facepalm...) But, she's already selling her work, which is better than I ever did as an aspiring artist. I stayed in the medical arena for about 31 years, did well, until I crossed my diversity boss. DO NOT DO THAT if you are a white male. There is no more of a WOKE sector than healthcare. Doesn't matter how good you are. It's all about The Religion.
Just gotta tell her it's easier to b.s. through social justice indoc class, cause people get flat out suspended or expelled for speaking truth to those profs. Better yet, find a school who doesnt force you to take that crap. Previous comment was right tho, if you dont have to pay for every cent, take a stem field.
You're assuming she has no scholarship or financial plan. The world is unkind to a woman with no skills and no man. You're putting a lot on a teenager who had a reasonably good date.
Gotta straighten out the younger generation somehow. I'm older and having to deal with all the mistakes we made over the last 15 years.
Education is a false lead, especially for women.
I see way too many women with $50k in debt in social work with jobs barely paying $40k completely unhappy with their lives but still clinging onto the idea they're an empowered woman, while their entire life has been subsidized by men who pay taxes so they won't just embrace motherhood and a traditional role when it would most definitely make them happier. They simply replaced their man with The Man. Sad.
I know no women like the ones you describe, I do know a few single mothers in their thirties and forties who thought they were in love once. I feel sorry for them, their lives really didn't turn out the way they wanted, but they have good paying jobs to fend for themselves and their kids. Most careers won't go very far without a degree.
Chicken egg. What was real cause and effect. Everyone knows someone that something. But the statistics say otherwise.
Would you marry a woman that keeps fuck buddies and orbiters around?
I love all your downvotes. I have three daughters, all smarter than I am. When people ask me "what are you thinking for their college" I laugh in their face and say "I think they should go to church, stay in shape, get a job and have 100 grand in bank when they meet a good man"
People think I'm a bad person. Then they crawl back into their studio apartment they share with $60,000 in debt, unmarried and unhappy, 40 years old with no prospects.