Personally, I'm a feminist. But I consider feminism meaning that women have legally equal rights as men. And I'm ok with that. I'm also OK that there are differences between men and women, and that sometimes those differences maybe require something different, legally.

To me, feminism is NOT putting women on a pedestal, giving them extra Rights, or anything special... it just means they are treated equally through the eyes of the law. It means that if a women does a crime, then she should get the same type of punishment as a man. It does not mean that wages should be calculated to determine if a woman's average wage is equal to a man's average wage in a field, that is anti-feminism. Men perform differently than women, and salaries should reflect that. You don't consider the sex of the person, you consider the work they do to calculate their salaries, and if they are happy with that, then there is nothing sexist with it.

And that's a good thing.

Contrast this to the feminazi who feel men should be obliterated, women lifted up, give women special attention, etc... that's not feminism, that's sexism.