If you valued "traditional western society" then you'd be all for ripping out the laws and systems that have been put in place that make it so that if you actually tried to do what you're saying the husband should have done he can be put in jail by the wife. All the woman has to do is lie and say she felt "threatened" and his ass is sitting in a jail cell.

The man only "abdicated" his position because cucks like you decided that since women are perpetual victims they should be given a loaded gun that they can use to destroy any man at any time. It's no wonder more and more men are checking out of society and marriage rates are the lowest since we began recording them. Yet people like you will happily let things get worse because "must hold men accountable and let women off!"