I would advocate for young men to sharpen their characters. This will repel all the whores and only attract a solid virtuous woman.

I take this stance because as a bodybuilder, my muscles have only achieved me being a public spectacle to behold, lol. I'm not huge, but I am unusually big. It's enough to hold a stranger's stare for an extra few seconds. I can't recall any young woman caring about the size of my arms or anything...unless they needed furniture moved, of course.