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posted ago by TenScoops ago by TenScoops +268 / -1

With the deepest sadness I have to make this final update, my beloved Mom passed away. We miss her endlessly, every hour, every minute, every second. Thank you all for your prayers, I know she is in a better place and I will meet her again one day


My Mom is not conscious, she doesn't eat she doesn't drink, she had a brain inflammation and doctors don't care much at her age in her mid 70ies. Glorious "free" heathcare. Can't afford specialists to check her out. I am desperate please someone pray for my Mom we couldn't visit because of China virus. We are broken. my Dad especially.

UPDATE: We are seeing some improvement in her condition. She is accepting water and little bit of food, and also getting infusions. New doctor seems to care more and making some more tests. Seems stable for now. Thank you for all your very kind replies and prayers. You are all the best, frens

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PaigeAshley 10 points ago +10 / -0

I'm so sorry, Friend! Praying right this moment for your Mom and for you! 💕

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TenScoops [S] 5 points ago +5 / -0

thank you so much, it means a lot to me

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PaigeAshley 7 points ago +7 / -0

hugs

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TwistedSister 8 points ago +9 / -1

We're here for you, Pede.

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TenScoops [S] 6 points ago +6 / -0

thank you from all my heart

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TwistedSister 5 points ago +6 / -1

I really wish I was there in person for you. I'd be a good friend for you right now.

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TenScoops [S] 5 points ago +5 / -0

very kind of you, much appreciated

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Chayabrocha321 6 points ago +6 / -0

This time we live in is dark indeed. Wishing you well during these hard times may we all see better days soon.

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TenScoops [S] 3 points ago +3 / -0

thank you, it would all be easier without the lockdowns but it had to happen just in the middle of this mess

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KlunniClowns 6 points ago +6 / -0

Praying for you and your family. May Jesus comfort you all and make His presence known. Lord, we ask for healing and mercy. Amen

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TenScoops [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

amen thank you very much

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Bigheadwjc 5 points ago +5 / -0

Praying.

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TenScoops [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

thank you very much

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ZhouqiWu 5 points ago +5 / -0

Praying

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TenScoops [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

big thank you fren, much appreciated

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Verrerogo 5 points ago +5 / -0

Prayer said.

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TenScoops [S] 4 points ago +4 / -0

thank you so much, appreciated

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Sourpuss 4 points ago +4 / -0

So sorry. 😞 Healthcare isn't what it used to be, and many pay the price. Keeping you in my prayers, during this tough time.

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

thank you, yes private healthcare insurance on top would be infinitely better, but it would double the premium amount easily, as the base insurance is already quite expensive. I can't believe how people consider "free healthcare" to be "free". State provided healthcare sucks, period.

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Sourpuss 2 points ago +2 / -0

Prior to Obamacare we didn't pay nearly as much for health insurance. It is a shame that you need to pay 15k or more a year for health insurance. It is absurd.

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

absurd is truly the most fitting word

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Anishinaabe 4 points ago +4 / -0

Prayers up, patriot. I am so sorry for your situation.

May God be always with you, and may he be with your mother as well.

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

your blessings are deeply appreciated, thank you. We are seeing slight improvement.

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jenroyandmoss 4 points ago +4 / -0

Tell us your mom's first name, yours and your father's, so we can lift your names to the Almighty Healer, the Lord who healeth.

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TenScoops [S] 5 points ago +5 / -0

I would love to if liberals wouldn't comb through this place for chances to dox us. I think the Lord will know if you include us in your prayer. Thank you so much

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jenroyandmoss 2 points ago +2 / -0

I understand. I have prayed for you in the name of the Lord, asking Him to touch and heal these suffering servants who so need His peace and presence this night. I will continue.

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

Thank you from the bottom of my heart, I wanted to give an update that we are actually seeing slight improvements in her condition. Prayers are working, thank you.

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Rockonanon 4 points ago +4 / -0

Will pray for you, fren. Dad was in hospital recently and couldn't visit. It was terrible. Luckily he is ok. I hope your mom gets better real quick!!!

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Glad your Dad got better! Thank you for your prayers and all the best to you and your family as well.

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Rockonanon 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thank you. Blessing to you and yours.

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horizonsmoon1 3 points ago +3 / -0

Praying

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

thank you very much, appreciated, she is doing a bit better actually. I believe it is working

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Granny_git_yer_gun 3 points ago +3 / -0

Praying for your Mom and your whole family, fren.

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

thank you so much, I am moved by all the prayers and blessings., My Mom is actually doing a bit better, it helped

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MAGA_Party 3 points ago +3 / -0

Prayers and love to you and your family.

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

Very much appreciated, thank you, and to give an update, situation is slightly improved now. I think the prayers helped. I hope and pray we see more improvement

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BlueEyedDevil 3 points ago +3 / -0

Father, Your love is as wide as the oceans As deep as the sea And as tall as the heavens. May your spirit rise like a mightly wave and come and restore those who are ill. You are the water of life, You are a fresh spring, You are healing rain To all those who are in need. Come Lord!

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Amen!

Thank you fren, this was beautiful. very much appreciated

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

thank you mate, it is going a bit better now., I believe the prayers worked

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ouvrez_les_yeux 2 points ago +2 / -0

Prayed for a miracle for you.

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

thank you so much. Actually she is doing a bit better, there is a bit of hope now

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ouvrez_les_yeux 2 points ago +2 / -0

So great to hear that! I'll keep you in my prayers.

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thank you, it got a bit worse again, fever. We don't know where this is going. Thank you for the prayers again

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chahn1138 2 points ago +2 / -0

Lord be with them! So sorry for the Troubles Brother.

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

thank you very much for your blessing

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POPOPO 2 points ago +2 / -0

PRAYERS

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

thank you very much, it is going a slght bit better now. I believe you all helped, thank you

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ERguy87 2 points ago +2 / -0

Was she at home before this? Just establishing baseline. And do they consider her to be receiving end of life care? Did she test positive for Covid? What state are ya'll in? Enough noise and one of you could get to visit even if it is limited.

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

yes, at home. No it's not Covid, tested three times even by now. Always negative

It's a kind of dementia cause by inflammation. We can visit now 1 person half an hour a week, with test result

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MAGAThor 2 points ago +2 / -0

I am on it, friend. May God be with you & your family, as I am with you In God, we are together.

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thank you MAGAThor, much appreciated, thank you for the blessings

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MAGAThor 2 points ago +2 / -0

Any improvement? How are things going?

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thanks for asking, there was short improvement , but fever now, it's unclear why. Needs examination again, they'll tell us more today.

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MAGAThor 2 points ago +2 / -0

Fever means her body is fighting. Could be a good sign. You are all in my constant prayer, friend.

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TenScoops [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

thank you, praying for improvement as well

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MAGAThor 2 points ago +2 / -0

Is she unconscious again? You remain on my mind, stay strong no matter what. I am sure she would want you to. I lost my dad a month before his favorite team won their first ever Super Bowl. It is hard; I hope that you have more time with your mother: https://imgur.com/zUHjo3l

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TenScoops [S] 2 points ago +2 / -0

yes, sadly back to a half conscious state, she can't do anything at the moment. It was slightly better yesterday. Sadly it's worse when my Dad goes visiting her, he had no luck yet seeing her a bit more lucid. Sorry about your Dad passing, this must have hurt terribly.

I hope I can at least keep my Dad stable for more time, because it is ruining him to see his wife of almost 60 years like this. We might lose them both, he is crying a lot.

thanks for your compassion. All the best. Beautiful words on the arm band