Yup. When parents and family members ask about boyfriends/girkfriends it’s just easier to self-identify as XYZ and use it as a excuse you can’t find a compatible person. Real reason is serious defects in character and lack of social skill.
Actually this is kinda what made me realize that I am bi. Im not trying to be LBTCHGTQUIa2+. or anything like that.... but I realized how much I am unattracted to fat lazy dyke women. I was more attracted to a good looking dude with a good outlook on life, than to a slob 'woman' who had absolutely no femininity. I still prefer women 1000% over dudes, but id be lying if I said I wasnt a little bit bi as well.
With that said being straight is great. Far easier to just be with 1 person of the opposite gender for life.
Do you sleep with these men? If no, then don't fall for the hypersexualization or the Marxist name games. Once upon a time, it used to be much more socially acceptable to be affectionate and emotionally connected with those of the same sex as yourself. Within families, and without. It was socially acceptable for men to look up to their fellow men and appreciate them with affection. When everything began to be hypersexualized, when every close same-sex friendship in media became "queerbaiting" and a litany of benign words and phases became innuendo and "phrasinggg" jokes, it essentially ruined the ability for platonic relationships to form in nonsexual innocence.
Perhaps you simply look up to and admire such men, and compared with women who would choose to be slobs so they don't have to compete in the marriage realm, it's only natural you would gravitate toward them. They are good role models, and perhaps good friends. And it's hard to not interpret those feelings as sexual when the world bombards us with titillating images constantly. Tldr.... There are different types of love, and painting these feelings with the broad brush of "bisexuality" is such a sad debasement of it.
Yup. When parents and family members ask about boyfriends/girkfriends it’s just easier to self-identify as XYZ and use it as a excuse you can’t find a compatible person. Real reason is serious defects in character and lack of social skill.
Actually this is kinda what made me realize that I am bi. Im not trying to be LBTCHGTQUIa2+. or anything like that.... but I realized how much I am unattracted to fat lazy dyke women. I was more attracted to a good looking dude with a good outlook on life, than to a slob 'woman' who had absolutely no femininity. I still prefer women 1000% over dudes, but id be lying if I said I wasnt a little bit bi as well.
With that said being straight is great. Far easier to just be with 1 person of the opposite gender for life.
Do you sleep with these men? If no, then don't fall for the hypersexualization or the Marxist name games. Once upon a time, it used to be much more socially acceptable to be affectionate and emotionally connected with those of the same sex as yourself. Within families, and without. It was socially acceptable for men to look up to their fellow men and appreciate them with affection. When everything began to be hypersexualized, when every close same-sex friendship in media became "queerbaiting" and a litany of benign words and phases became innuendo and "phrasinggg" jokes, it essentially ruined the ability for platonic relationships to form in nonsexual innocence.
Perhaps you simply look up to and admire such men, and compared with women who would choose to be slobs so they don't have to compete in the marriage realm, it's only natural you would gravitate toward them. They are good role models, and perhaps good friends. And it's hard to not interpret those feelings as sexual when the world bombards us with titillating images constantly. Tldr.... There are different types of love, and painting these feelings with the broad brush of "bisexuality" is such a sad debasement of it.