Make some waves. Seize the narrative yourself. Dress out of the nineteen fifties, and look better than they do. You will get eyeballs on you. Once the eyeballs are on you, you can start talking about things.

This is even better done as a couple.

You have lost your marriages, your sex, your un-had children, your money, your historic statues, your civil peace, your election. It might not be time to be afraid of putting on some traditional clothes.