So, was perusing Eddit with an alt account since all my other ones have either gotten nuked or are scored for wrong-think.

Found this gem in the /r/D&D sub.

"Hey y'all! I ran into an issue I had never considered recently; I introduced a topic in a game that I didn't think was problematic, but it was very problematic to a player. Obviously the LAST thing I want to do is make anyone uncomfortable, so I removed the topic entirely. But that got me thinking about consent in gaming. Most players are generally okay with most themes, as long as they aren't taboo. I personally have accidentally offended a player a year ago by mentioning cocaine use. So, I did some digging and found a handy form to use! It hits broad strokes about certain topics and how a player would feel introducing them in the game. It also opens possibilities for more specific topics not mentioned and even opinions on discussing such feelings. I highly recommend presenting this to your players/DM, because D&D is supposed to escape reality, not bring uncomfortable things in."