I'm okay with people being transgender. I'm also okay with people mutilating their bodies to pretend to be snakes or w/e. It's their choice, they can do what they want.

I will also never call it normal or anything but an indulgent sexual fetish.

You can be okay with people doing something abnormal without normalizing it.

Living in a free society means that people are free to be as weird as they want. What is not okay is how far they have taken it, to the point of using force to make people call it normal and be okay with it.

The problem we have in this country is that everyone is afraid to just say "No, sorry, I don't care if it hurts your feelings, you're not normal and nothing you do will change that. Be as abnormal as you want, but it will always be abnormal."

Without people willing to do that, the slippery slope becomes real.