Same here, I think they should disclose what genitalia they have along with their pronouns. For their own safety and reputation. Baiting a potential mate into thinking you have genitalia that you don't have just seems like a shitty thing to on an individual and societal level.

It is sad to see stories where Trans people get beat up (and worse) or when they get treated like pariahs but they kind of invite that stuff by being dishonest with people.