Good read. I believe this idea of a cheater offloading their guilt on their spouse may be older but I first heard it from Adam corolla via loveline in the 90s. I Listened to many callers explaining they told their spouse that they cheated. He then time and again explained to them that basically this was a blatant sign they wanted to end the relationship. Whatever happened after there's essentially only so many outcomes on this.
1 keep your mouth shut zip up your dick and stop cheating, and fix your marriage problems bamn.
2 tell your spouse and possibly hurt her irreparably for a lifetime. Then fix the relationship but they never forget your horrible act.
3 tell and end it because it's not repairable anyway.
Or
4 keep it to yourself but end the relationship like a man so that she can move on without the pain of your actions.
Even in the article they are saying to me what's blatantly obvious.
"But if Jay Z came to his wife after infidelity and expressed that he loves her and wants to improve their marriage for both their sakes, then confessing infidelity is part of that."
Confessing infidelity would NEVER imo IMPROVE a relationship. It can imo only ever hurt it.
While I stay with the -never be alone anywhere ever with a woman because it can be dangerous- for a relationship and for a man weather he's an honest person or not with all the me2 crap women can say anything.
I would solidly land with option 1 if you love your spouse clean up your act and fix what's wrong with you and keep your family intact. ESPECIALLY if you have young ones.
Good read. I believe this idea of a cheater offloading their guilt on their spouse may be older but I first heard it from Adam corolla via loveline in the 90s. I Listened to many callers explaining they told their spouse that they cheated. He then time and again explained to them that basically this was a blatant sign they wanted to end the relationship. Whatever happened after there's essentially only so many outcomes on this. 1 keep your mouth shut zip up your dick and stop cheating, and fix your marriage problems bamn. 2 tell your spouse and possibly hurt her irreparably for a lifetime. Then fix the relationship but they never forget your horrible act. 3 tell and end it because it's not repairable anyway. Or 4 keep it to yourself but end the relationship like a man so that she can move on without the pain of your actions.
Even in the article they are saying to me what's blatantly obvious.
"But if Jay Z came to his wife after infidelity and expressed that he loves her and wants to improve their marriage for both their sakes, then confessing infidelity is part of that."
Confessing infidelity would NEVER imo IMPROVE a relationship. It can imo only ever hurt it.
While I stay with the -never be alone anywhere ever with a woman because it can be dangerous- for a relationship and for a man weather he's an honest person or not with all the me2 crap women can say anything.
I would solidly land with option 1 if you love your spouse clean up your act and fix what's wrong with you and keep your family intact. ESPECIALLY if you have young ones.