I mean that is drinking problem. But more obviously it’s an unhappiness problem.

My advice would not to neglect other things that are important to you. Cherish your wife and support her and let her support you in this difficult time.

There’s a lot of things outside of our control, but there are things you can do. Get productive. Become more self sustaining. Grow a garden, go to the shooting range, work hard and plan a lovely vacation with your wife. Live! Don’t wallow, face the day with courage. Don’t wait for others. Try to improve and enjoy your life now.