I agree completely, but physical attractiveness is what you see first, and it is enough to establish initial attraction. The other attributes will either increase or decrease overall attractiveness as they make themselves known. I've witnessed many of my friends drawn into relationships by physical attraction alone, and it didn't end well for any of them.
I remember back when one would actually get to know someone first, before they started bumping uglies. You would learn all the important stuff first, resulting in a relationship based on things that mattered, and would never go away. The physical aspect of a relationship is nice, but it won't last forever. Brains, good morals, compassion, etc. are forever.
I agree completely, but physical attractiveness is what you see first, and it is enough to establish initial attraction. The other attributes will either increase or decrease overall attractiveness as they make themselves known. I've witnessed many of my friends drawn into relationships by physical attraction alone, and it didn't end well for any of them.
I remember back when one would actually get to know someone first, before they started bumping uglies. You would learn all the important stuff first, resulting in a relationship based on things that mattered, and would never go away. The physical aspect of a relationship is nice, but it won't last forever. Brains, good morals, compassion, etc. are forever.