The problem with the trans community is that those with fetishes entered and are running wild, trying to remove all barriers, introspection, reality, and shoving others inside who don't have the knowledge to determine what they actually want / is best for them. They're the equivalent of those trying to remove the age of consent (and enough times the exact same people). With that said, I think that there are those who transitioning (to some degree) might really be the best path, but should only be done with the full understanding of the severity, and all the related issues, including the knowledge of those who regret transitioning.

For vegans, there's the joke: "How do you know someone's a vegan? They tell you." The unsaid inverse of that is "How do you know someone's a good vegan? You don't. They don't tell you." The same is often true for many things, unfortunately. It's even true for people with a normal diet against vegans; there are a lot of those who have to let vegans know what they think of them, regardless of any prompting or consideration or for those on the other side.