Damn straight, my man. Made the decision recently; from now on, I get what I want. Used to always put everyone else first. That's a good thing, a noble thing. But to do it ALL the time is a self destructive thing. If I'm happy, I'm more motivated to do for others. If I've got time to do for me and to do for someone else, I'm gonna do for me first, because I'm doing them a fucking favor, if I don't get to it, sorry, but you didn't do it for yourself either.
And I've found that since I've been working to get what I want, I'm actually doing MORE for others. Because I AM getting what I want, first, and then preserving that momentum and plowing through the things that others have asked.
He has Taught me how to Win. Build for myself, and then use my Resources for my Allies. And take no shit from anyone.
Well said. People naturally gravitate towards individuals they see taking initiative for themselves and succeeding. Plus, good women are attracted to men who can do for themselves as well.
Funny you should say that, as I'm positioning myself to steal a good woman from a douche who doesn't appreciate her. Only further preparation I need is to save the Family Business which is APPARENTLY much, much less "my inheritance" as has been insisted upon for the past 10 years, and more "a debt factory because I can't rein in my spending."
Which is a shame, as it makes good money, and the work isn't backbreaking or anything, but you need to stop taking out fucking loans. When you've got a second mortgage and you've repaid 300 dollars of it, but have accrued 3,000 more interest in the same amount of time, I don't care how much money you're making, you need to repay your fucking debts.
But I'm going to do it. I'm going to knuckle down and do this, because I can, and I want to, and I will.
Not to mention that's how you accomplish more and that's how you win.
Damn straight, my man. Made the decision recently; from now on, I get what I want. Used to always put everyone else first. That's a good thing, a noble thing. But to do it ALL the time is a self destructive thing. If I'm happy, I'm more motivated to do for others. If I've got time to do for me and to do for someone else, I'm gonna do for me first, because I'm doing them a fucking favor, if I don't get to it, sorry, but you didn't do it for yourself either.
And I've found that since I've been working to get what I want, I'm actually doing MORE for others. Because I AM getting what I want, first, and then preserving that momentum and plowing through the things that others have asked.
He has Taught me how to Win. Build for myself, and then use my Resources for my Allies. And take no shit from anyone.
Well said. People naturally gravitate towards individuals they see taking initiative for themselves and succeeding. Plus, good women are attracted to men who can do for themselves as well.
Funny you should say that, as I'm positioning myself to steal a good woman from a douche who doesn't appreciate her. Only further preparation I need is to save the Family Business which is APPARENTLY much, much less "my inheritance" as has been insisted upon for the past 10 years, and more "a debt factory because I can't rein in my spending."
Which is a shame, as it makes good money, and the work isn't backbreaking or anything, but you need to stop taking out fucking loans. When you've got a second mortgage and you've repaid 300 dollars of it, but have accrued 3,000 more interest in the same amount of time, I don't care how much money you're making, you need to repay your fucking debts.
But I'm going to do it. I'm going to knuckle down and do this, because I can, and I want to, and I will.