Any dude who dressed as a lady to purposefully trick another dude into nonconsensual gay sex should expect extreme and instantaneous consequences for their actions.

That should not even be a controversial statement. No man would ever tolerate anything even remotely along those lines.

Do whatever you want in your own bedroom with willing participants. But never ever bring that depravity to the unwilling, especially when the unwilling is a fully capable adult male, aka the most dangerous animal on the planet.