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christianknight 28 points ago +31 / -3

then get a lady friend and move to the woods. Or are you intending to find a lady friend at the club...

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KX909 [S] 38 points ago +39 / -1

No, not a club. Nevertheless, having lived in both rural areas and a large American city, you encounter a lot more people in a lot of different contexts being in a city. Living in a very rural area, you don't really encounter anyone. Which is what makes it nice, right?

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Atsgaming 17 points ago +23 / -6

Well yea but you probably have a higher chance to find the right people out in the "middle of nowhere" vs downtown bigcity

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KX909 [S] 19 points ago +19 / -0

That's a valid point. I guess it's about finding the right balance. There need to be enough people to meet them but not so many that it becomes a hellpit full of promiscuous hipster womens.

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randomusers239874 11 points ago +11 / -0

The honest truth is that the other guy is wrong. There are many more women and opportunities near and in a city, so if you're young you should definitely move to one. I'm a bit older but in the same boat, basically I can be a hermit in the middle of nowhere and never meet anyone, or give a southern city a chance. I was actually looking at Kentucky a bit, or maybe even Georgia.

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julianReyes 3 points ago +11 / -8

Learn to cook, find a potluck, cook something and bring the dish, introduce yourself to the community at the potluck.

There, no need for "nightlife."

Or find a constructive hobby and go to a hobby group/club.

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MAGA_Party 2 points ago +3 / -1

You can find women of all ages at church. Most churches have a Wed night bible study in addition to Sunday service. Bible studies are more casual and easier to meet new people.

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OzarkianTrumper 4 points ago +4 / -0

www.FarmersOnly.com Get you a nice, buxom, farm girl who love to wear shit-kicken boots and nothing else as she teaches you what a REAL roll in the hay is all about!

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silentnoobxd 1 point ago +1 / -0

Can't find "good people" if you never find people

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christianknight 9 points ago +9 / -0

That is true but right now the city is not the place to be heading to, it is the place to be leaving.

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MocksFordComma 9 points ago +10 / -1

If you meet a lady in the city, taking her out of the city is going to be difficult. If you have your own country paradise, ladies find you.

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Filetsmignon 4 points ago +4 / -0

Ladies want security. If you've got the money to take them to the country and provide them with a home and safety to raise a family they will go. And if they don't want that then their not Mrs. Right for OP.

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slaphappy2 4 points ago +5 / -1

lol

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BigIronBigIron 7 points ago +8 / -1

He wants an independent, college educated tattooed cat-owning BLM-supporting upwardly mobile professional who don't need no man, but who does need to pay off the remainder of her 200k student loan