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KX909 [S] 38 points ago +39 / -1

No, not a club. Nevertheless, having lived in both rural areas and a large American city, you encounter a lot more people in a lot of different contexts being in a city. Living in a very rural area, you don't really encounter anyone. Which is what makes it nice, right?

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Atsgaming 17 points ago +23 / -6

Well yea but you probably have a higher chance to find the right people out in the "middle of nowhere" vs downtown bigcity

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KX909 [S] 19 points ago +19 / -0

That's a valid point. I guess it's about finding the right balance. There need to be enough people to meet them but not so many that it becomes a hellpit full of promiscuous hipster womens.

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randomusers239874 11 points ago +11 / -0

The honest truth is that the other guy is wrong. There are many more women and opportunities near and in a city, so if you're young you should definitely move to one. I'm a bit older but in the same boat, basically I can be a hermit in the middle of nowhere and never meet anyone, or give a southern city a chance. I was actually looking at Kentucky a bit, or maybe even Georgia.

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HuggableBear 1 point ago +1 / -0

Stay the fuck out of Georgia. 100% of Georgia politics is dominated by Atlanta, which is a steaming shithole. Something like 75% of the population of the entire state is in 13 counties out of 159 and they're either fully urban or full of ridiculous soybois and their karens.

If you want to go somewhere that's still red, go to West Virginia or Eastern Kentucky. Live within an hour of a big city for convenience, but just buy a ton of land. You can still find land out there for $1000-1500 an acre. Buy yourself 100 acres of hillside facing the sunset, put a cabin on it, and go into town when you need groceries or w/e.

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julianReyes 3 points ago +11 / -8

Learn to cook, find a potluck, cook something and bring the dish, introduce yourself to the community at the potluck.

There, no need for "nightlife."

Or find a constructive hobby and go to a hobby group/club.

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oEMPYREo 13 points ago +13 / -0

Find a potluck? That’s your plan to meet women?

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MAGA_Party 2 points ago +3 / -1

You can find women of all ages at church. Most churches have a Wed night bible study in addition to Sunday service. Bible studies are more casual and easier to meet new people.

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dingdongdaddy 1 point ago +2 / -1

I AIN'T FUCKIN AT CHURCH.

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OzarkianTrumper 4 points ago +4 / -0

www.FarmersOnly.com Get you a nice, buxom, farm girl who love to wear shit-kicken boots and nothing else as she teaches you what a REAL roll in the hay is all about!

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silentnoobxd 1 point ago +1 / -0

Can't find "good people" if you never find people

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christianknight 9 points ago +9 / -0

That is true but right now the city is not the place to be heading to, it is the place to be leaving.

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MocksFordComma 9 points ago +10 / -1

If you meet a lady in the city, taking her out of the city is going to be difficult. If you have your own country paradise, ladies find you.

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Filetsmignon 4 points ago +4 / -0

Ladies want security. If you've got the money to take them to the country and provide them with a home and safety to raise a family they will go. And if they don't want that then their not Mrs. Right for OP.

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slaphappy2 4 points ago +5 / -1

lol

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