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DongSquad420 43 points ago +47 / -4

Fwiw the two guys i know that smashed tons and tons of girls eventually got a bicurious. I think if you sleep around too much, it has the same effect as fapping to the same type of porn... you uh get bored of it. These are only two cases. Im sure the maga chads here will tell me im wrong

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Mintap 45 points ago +48 / -3

Yep, the way I see it there are really only two sexual orientations: the monogamous comprehensive one man one woman arrangement and the any other perverted crap of any kind.

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trump1aj 13 points ago +18 / -5

As someone who is chad fluid I can say this. In my times when I was on a hot streak I would be on a roll. If I slept with someone a cut above the rest, all my game went out the window. Usually this would lead to me running the wrong plays and losing what made me attractive to her in the first place. Returning to regular girls (5-7 range) I’d have this feeling of downgrading which as a competitive man is never good. Once you lose that head space it can be really tough to get back. I’m sure many chads feel this way. Especially the ones that end up divorced. Despite being ‘successful’ on paper, they weren’t successful when it mattered so it feels like failure all the same. Over many years it can be relatable to making the play offs many times but never winning a championship. I don’t know what this has to do with being gay. Perhaps just like drugs, chasing those best highs result in escalation. Maybe that’s the real reason men have kids. To distract us from the unquenchable desire to have sex.

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sordfysh 23 points ago +24 / -1

Or you just realize that unquenchable desire is a dark pit of despair. Like chasing a high, you realize you are throwing your life away at people who you begin to despise. And the good people you love start to leave you behind. And some you end up dragging down with you.

The situation you speak of is best left to the folly of youth, if at all. At some point you may want someone forever instead of whenever. And you may end up being the one-night-stand guy when you want something more. And you may hurt the one who has been there for you by chasing mysteries instead.

Youth is the best time to make mistakes, but you may realize that it was a lot of mistakes that you wish you would have avoided.

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SpeedyPrius1 3 points ago +3 / -0

This!! I've stayed friends with 2 guys I dated previously who have done this. Spent their entire life playing the field and realized one day that they are no longer as attractive as they were and everyone else they knew is married and happy with a family. One went to the Philippines where you can hook up with someone much younger if you agree to support her and her family and the other still lives alone and lonely.

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sordfysh 1 point ago +1 / -0

Yeah. By the grace of God, I got out of that mindset right on my last lifeboat off that island.

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HillarysBeaverMunch 9 points ago +9 / -0

Oh, I still want to have sex. I just gotta get a sitter now.

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cantstumpthestump 15 points ago +15 / -0

Does the sitter charge extra for that?

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HillarysBeaverMunch 3 points ago +5 / -2

She's like 14 so I hope she goes several more years before she mulls hot penile action!

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LastConservativeInCA 1 point ago +1 / -0

Whoa! I thought you typed sister. I haven't my coffee yet.

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rivertrek 3 points ago +3 / -0

Sheesh, do you go to church?

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tallon 1 point ago +1 / -0

That’s pretty degenerate ngl.

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mordhaus -3 points ago +3 / -6

lol insecure manchild alert

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TrumpsWall 9 points ago +9 / -0

Maga Chad here...you’re wrong.

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bjjmike69 2 points ago +2 / -0

I actually LOL'ed

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UmbraSapientia 3 points ago +3 / -0

I've had a lot of "luck with the ladies". Phenomenally. Sadly. It creeps up on you over time, like you described with the effect of watching the same porn and becoming bored. But unlike escalation on to more degenerate things, it's more like a natural instinct/drive burns out in you. You start skipping important nights/events to go bang a chick or hook up with someone and miss out on the fun half of a party. Some girls "really actually like you" and wont leave you alone. Some are crazy and appear at your front door demanding to know why you don't talk to them. You begin feeling a sense of wasted time, nights you'd prefer doing something else. Then regretting it.

Just because you can get pussy now, doesn't mean you need it.