As someone who is chad fluid I can say this. In my times when I was on a hot streak I would be on a roll. If I slept with someone a cut above the rest, all my game went out the window. Usually this would lead to me running the wrong plays and losing what made me attractive to her in the first place. Returning to regular girls (5-7 range) I’d have this feeling of downgrading which as a competitive man is never good. Once you lose that head space it can be really tough to get back. I’m sure many chads feel this way. Especially the ones that end up divorced. Despite being ‘successful’ on paper, they weren’t successful when it mattered so it feels like failure all the same. Over many years it can be relatable to making the play offs many times but never winning a championship. I don’t know what this has to do with being gay. Perhaps just like drugs, chasing those best highs result in escalation. Maybe that’s the real reason men have kids. To distract us from the unquenchable desire to have sex.