A man pretending to be a woman or the rerverse, is for most people not an acceptable choice for mate, gays included. For decades we have pretended that sex change operations are real when they are not. No surgeon ever said so, but there are hormones and certain things they can mutilate when asked by gender dysphoriacs. But a neovagina is not real, it has a bad and wrong smell, the body will try to heal it so it must be jammed open regularly. So, now we play word games to create more illliusions. Assigned gender, chosen gender, as if there was a human decision at birth, that can be undone. The real source of the tranny anger is that the word games are beginning to fail and the illusions they carry will end up rejected by the less insane.