Andrea: When I was 22 I found myself $60,000 in debt from a string of financially abusive relationships coupled with limited skills, no post-secondary education, and a lack of financial literacy. For years I struggled, at one point working five part-time jobs in an attempt to clear my debt. When I saw an ad in my local newspaper offering thousands of dollars a week for “adult entertainment”, I replied to the ad unaware of what I was even replying to. I was so naïve and had not had any exposure to the sex trade prior to that, aside from glamorized depictions in media and pop culture.
https://radicailin.com/interview-with-a-former-brothel-madam-andrea-heinz/
Translation: I dropped out of an expensive college. How does a 22 year old get $60k in debt, unless from borrowing for college? "Hi, I'm 19-20 and work at Wendy's part time, I'd like to borrow $60k"
Blaming men for her shitty life decisions. It takes two to tango. You pulled out 60g's for a dude likely addicted to meth after he got arrested for child porn, you paid his 60k bail, and he jumped bail. I'm willing to bet that's what happened.
LUL. 5 part time jobs. Shit, she worked 3 AT THE SAME TIME. What a liar.
You don't need FIVE PART TIME JOBS to clear 60k in debt. You could clear 60k in debt in 3-5 years with an entry level job.
Blame 'financial literacy'. That's your fault. It's your fault you didn't go to university. It's your fault you have limited skills (sucking the chrome off a bumper is NOT on that list apparently).
She saw an ad for 'Adult Entertainment' and didn't know what she was replying to? Dude, it's pretty fucking clear what's being inferred. You're either a stripper, a hooker, or both. This whole story is a fucking lie and this is the dead giveaway. You don't need 'exposure' to 'sex trade' to figure out what 'adult entertainer' means. Holy shit.
Agreed. "I only knew sex work from pop culture". Well, then she knew what "Adult Entertainment" was, as you say.
Churches are also responsible for this "Blame the Men" culture, by never, ever, holding women responsible for their actions. If a 20-year old college guy feels up his fiance, the pastor will be all over it if he finds out. Meanwhile the 20-year old HS dropout single mom sitting in the pews with 3 kids from 2 different fathers she never married is never scolded.
Truth, men have accountability, women largely are exempt from that and as they tend to have weaker frame they'll happily accept any scapegoat, and in modern times there are limitless scapegoats to choose from.
Andrea: When I was 22 I found myself $60,000 in debt from a string of financially abusive relationships coupled with limited skills, no post-secondary education, and a lack of financial literacy. For years I struggled, at one point working five part-time jobs in an attempt to clear my debt. When I saw an ad in my local newspaper offering thousands of dollars a week for “adult entertainment”, I replied to the ad unaware of what I was even replying to. I was so naïve and had not had any exposure to the sex trade prior to that, aside from glamorized depictions in media and pop culture. https://radicailin.com/interview-with-a-former-brothel-madam-andrea-heinz/
Translation: I dropped out of an expensive college. How does a 22 year old get $60k in debt, unless from borrowing for college? "Hi, I'm 19-20 and work at Wendy's part time, I'd like to borrow $60k"
Blaming men for her shitty life decisions. It takes two to tango. You pulled out 60g's for a dude likely addicted to meth after he got arrested for child porn, you paid his 60k bail, and he jumped bail. I'm willing to bet that's what happened.
LUL. 5 part time jobs. Shit, she worked 3 AT THE SAME TIME. What a liar.
You don't need FIVE PART TIME JOBS to clear 60k in debt. You could clear 60k in debt in 3-5 years with an entry level job.
Blame 'financial literacy'. That's your fault. It's your fault you didn't go to university. It's your fault you have limited skills (sucking the chrome off a bumper is NOT on that list apparently).
She saw an ad for 'Adult Entertainment' and didn't know what she was replying to? Dude, it's pretty fucking clear what's being inferred. You're either a stripper, a hooker, or both. This whole story is a fucking lie and this is the dead giveaway. You don't need 'exposure' to 'sex trade' to figure out what 'adult entertainer' means. Holy shit.
Agreed. "I only knew sex work from pop culture". Well, then she knew what "Adult Entertainment" was, as you say.
Churches are also responsible for this "Blame the Men" culture, by never, ever, holding women responsible for their actions. If a 20-year old college guy feels up his fiance, the pastor will be all over it if he finds out. Meanwhile the 20-year old HS dropout single mom sitting in the pews with 3 kids from 2 different fathers she never married is never scolded.
That's because it's low-hanging fruit that will never respond to the guilt the way a young white man will.
Truth, men have accountability, women largely are exempt from that and as they tend to have weaker frame they'll happily accept any scapegoat, and in modern times there are limitless scapegoats to choose from.