The other day I wrote a comment saying how excited my gf was to get the vaccine and that she would get it immediately after it opens up to her. She knows my stance about it. I was thinking that I would break up with her if she got it, but I never told her that. Until just now.
I want kids of my own one day and the miscarriage risk and potential to make you infertile with the “vaccine” is too high of a risk at this point in my life. I don’t want to spend years with someone then they knowingly became infertile and can’t have children of her own because of the vaccine.
Well I just told her that I can’t be with her if she gets the vaccine before we have children. She said okay and broke up with me on the spot. 3 years down the drain. It’s clear we weren’t destined to be together forever and this just solidified it. It’s crazy that she would choose a jab over being together and how easy she was with the decision. Clown world. I’m better off for it. Time to find my dream girl... after some time
Edit: thanks everyone! Good frens
He didn't try to control her medical choices, he just put down boundaries. Then she got mad and basically left first. If you're having a go at him for being unwilling to talk about it, I mean, they're both at fault for the same thing...
Bullshit. He absolutely tried to control her medical choices lol.
She isn't the one who put their relationship on the line over an extremely personal decision.
And I'm not having a go. I'm giving friendly advice that hopefully leads to growth. That's all.
I think we have different definitions of controlling. And inside a relationship, imo, nothing is too personal. My bf tells me what to do all the time, medically, financially, professionally, and I appreciate his input, I listen to him, and I know he wouldn't say it if he didn't care very much for me. If it was something very serious I would rather do things his way even if I disagreed (little things we disagree on are ok). For example - just recently I agreed to buy a car and stop riding my motorcycle, even though I like my motorcycle very much, because he is afraid I'll become seriously injured.
Nothing is too personal when you're dealing with permanent life decisions with the person you're considering spending the rest of your life with.
Controlling is saying, "I'll hurt you if you take the vaccine" or "I'll deprive you of <basic need> if you take the vaccine".
"I will leave you" is only controlling if he also says "no one else will ever love you" or tries to make her feel trapped in some other way. It's a big jump and a big accusation to assume that is what OP did... and clearly he didn't, because his gf felt perfectly comfortable ending it herself.
How the fuck is a vaccine a "permanent life decision"?
Dude. It's not a vaccine. It's an experimental biological agent.
Possible side effects are infertility, pathogenic priming, death. Watch Dr Simone Gold on it. She got fired for prescribing drugs that actually work.
https://www.bitchute.com/video/9bH46xQRqjFa/