I swear it's just runaway slacktivism. Useless men and female just following whatever algorithim they think gets them more affirmation and attention from their peers and the opposite sex, however their math is off and it just makes them look more pathetic and undesireable as some other asshole rushes to one up them in those departments.
There's a deranged transgender that has infected this site and follows me around, because I called xhe out. Xhe was posting on againsthatesubreddits and uses dozens of alts and techniques to shill against this forum. Xhe has no social or love life, but all the time in the world to be a huge loser here as xhe is running off pure rage and frustration.
I've drawn the ire of a mentally ill transgender with dozens of alts here. Xhe was from r/againsthatesubreddits and has come here to infilitrate this site and so far she hasn't been kicked, but she posts a lot of racist and concern troll type stuff to scare Trump supporters away and also gangs up to downvote and bully Trump supporters too. Xhe goes by Burrito, TedBundyCruz and like a few dozen other names, pretending like xhe fits in at times so it's not too obvious.
I also just … don’t want a stay-at-home wife. I really admired my wife for her work ethic, and I want her to set a good example for our daughter, too.
Giving up her career to raise and nurture their daughter is the most noble work she could do, and hard work at that, and their daughter will grow up a better person for it. What better example could he ask for? You'd have to be a pretty selfish person to make a complaint like this.
It seems more like he's taking advantage of a dual income based on what I've read, He doesn't like that he's got to take up most of the financial responsibilities now. Part of life though.
Fuck, I want my wife to be a stay at home mom. I don’t want some random fuckhead at a daycare watching my children 9 hours a day and charging me $500/week for the “privilege” of having a second income.
With the insane amount of pedophiles and sexual deviants being churned out by our degenerate pop culture, no telling who could be working at the daycare.
I bet he wants to "pursue his passion" and needs someone else to pay the bills, and wife wanting to stay home means he has to put his dreams aside and make some cash.
Yep, I linked to the article in the comments, it seems like this guy only cares about money, particularly the ability to sponge off of it with a dual income. He refers to himself in a lamentable way as the sudden bread winner so I think he just wanted to spend most of his money on useless crap.
This is exactly the type of story that makes me annoyed anew with the right wing's tendency to blame the current anti-family social paradigm solely on women or feminism. It takes two, both male and female in a 50/50 world to screw up society and create this instability. A lot of Western men won't let their wives have more children or any children because of either financial or personal freedom issues. Add that to all the men that simply refuse to even get married at all because they've been sold a bill of goods about some fantasy bachelor life of skirt chasing and no responsibility. Starting in the 1970s, the media went on a very aggressive campaign to not only convince women to focus only on their own ambitions, but to convince men that being a husband and father and being committed to a family was a type of slavery, a state of imprisonment that should be avoided at all costs. Three vacations a year and a new car every two years and going out to eat four times a week is supposed to be the preferred tradeoff to raising amazing kids and being in love with your wife and kids for a lifetime and beyond. Sick values.
That sums it up. Pathetic cuck probably sits in his basement leeching off government welfare expecting his wife to work and earn money. Then he take that money and buys shiny shit for himself.
What a douche. Thinks his wife is mentally ill for preferring to raise their daughter and not pay a stranger to do it. His heart is the size of a grain of rice.
My wife LOVES being a stay at home mom. She was never comfortable in the workforce and loves having all this time to spend with her children and raising them. If it means I need to work harder to support my family, so be it. Part of being a man is giving my family the best life I can, through my sacrifice.
Liberals have made it sound like being in the workforce is the most glamorous and fulfilling thing, for most people it just means sitting at an office desk and getting yelled at by a foreigner every day, men have to put up with it, and that's why they die earlier. there can be fulfilling aspects to work, but the way the left fetishizes it is ridiculous. At least there are women out there that don't buy into the propaganda that muh career is what defines me.
Millions of years of evolution, every instinct we have... it’s all about passing on our genes. The most fulfilling thing in life is to have children and ensure their success and survival. Most women will want to stay home and raise their children if they can. It’s wired into our DNA.
The husband is selfish. The main problem might be because they work at the same company, maybe they are on a team and he does not want to work with someone else.
The second problem, he talks about "generous maternity leave", so his focus is on money and what they have. Company pays a year of maternity leave, and then she quits.
I get that it is probably very daunting going from one income to two. Especially as they seem to have had an agreement before the baby. However babies change you. I know so many mothers who hated going back to work. They resented their husband/partner and their job. Better that he man up and suck it up. Otherwise he might lose them both.
Everyone is calling him a douche, but for all the wrong reasons. He's a douche because he honestly believed her when she said she wanted to go back to work. She lied to him. period. and now his whole dreams for the future are completley derailed and he's married to a woman who.... lied. lol
He's a douche for thinking it was going to be any other way and I hope he finds a way to suck it up and enjoy the ride.... also - dont ever trust women with that kind of shit. ever.
I was dedicated to my career and ambitious before I had any children. I never thought I'd be a stay at home mom. I went back to work after my first baby. During my second pregnancy I quit my job, not to stay home with the kids, but due to issues at work. I fully expected to return to the workforce after my second was born.
But after some months at home, I realized I was happier and far less stressed. I also had a much better, closer relationship with my oldest child, and he was much calmer, more secure, and happier. Knowing that his mother wanted to be with him 24/7 and not just on evenings and weekends made a big difference.
When I told my husband that I wanted to stay at home with the kids permanently, he was pretty surprised. But my reasons made sense, so he agreed to it.
So she may not have lied, but instead had a real change of heart.
Oh I definitely don't think she lied. I won't get too much into the reasons, but people do change after they have kids, and it's a much more deep experience for the mother. I don't see how nature could survive if mammals didn't have an attachment to their offspring, it all seems perfectly natural to me which is why I'm surprised anybody could find that to be abnormal. Of course, the left has completely removed naturism from human thought.
Thank you for you comment. I sincerely think the same thing happened to her. She had a "change of heart" after experiencing a life altering event that shifted her priorities. Still, in the aforementioned case, she made promises (at least that is what I am to understand) and broke them. My problem is not with her... it's with him. He is a douche because he should have known that there was a strong chance she would break them and prepared himself for that. He chose to believe in a fictional future, and made no allowance for reality.
Ask your husband (I'm assuming some time has passed) if he was truly surprised by your request, or if somewhere, somehow, he was aware that you would make this shift focus on your children. The truth may surprise you.
He’s a certified, grade-A douche for prioritising his “needs” for things over what is best for his child and wife.
And he’s a weak, myopic manchild who evidently cannot be depended upon or trusted to provide for his family when needed. She’s the one who has been lied to. She’s brought his child into the world and has discovered his primary concern is muh viddyagames and muh hobbies instead of manning up and meeting his most basic responsibility to his child and wife. Now she’s going to be a mother to two infants, instead of one.
And people wonder why so many young folks are fucked up.
How much more ambitious can you be than wanting to raise a good human?
It's literally the most important job - parents should embrace it.
Seriously. Raise the kid to be president or an astronaut or a successful adult in general. THAT is ambition as well!
I swear it's just runaway slacktivism. Useless men and female just following whatever algorithim they think gets them more affirmation and attention from their peers and the opposite sex, however their math is off and it just makes them look more pathetic and undesireable as some other asshole rushes to one up them in those departments.
Why you getting downvotes? What you said is legit.
There's a deranged transgender that has infected this site and follows me around, because I called xhe out. Xhe was posting on againsthatesubreddits and uses dozens of alts and techniques to shill against this forum. Xhe has no social or love life, but all the time in the world to be a huge loser here as xhe is running off pure rage and frustration.
Lol, that is some funny shit right there. Well, hopefully that tranny will see this and know that they will never pass.
That just makes xer more infuriated and more intent on bringing this site and more furious those who call xer out on xer's bullshit.
Well, the best way to deal with a choleric tempered person is to poke them to the point of rage.
based and redpilled. don’t understand the downvotes here.
People can't read.
I've drawn the ire of a mentally ill transgender with dozens of alts here. Xhe was from r/againsthatesubreddits and has come here to infilitrate this site and so far she hasn't been kicked, but she posts a lot of racist and concern troll type stuff to scare Trump supporters away and also gangs up to downvote and bully Trump supporters too. Xhe goes by Burrito, TedBundyCruz and like a few dozen other names, pretending like xhe fits in at times so it's not too obvious.
At least the down votes don't ultimately mean anything here. They don't hide posts or censor in the manner that reddit does.
It just makes the tranny bots downvoting cry more that I don't give a fuck.
Yep you’re still getting hammered. +4/-8 on this comment. Fight on!
Buy muh womens sitcoms!
They're all supposed to be empowered sluts that drink all day and crack jokes, just like the guys!
Giving up her career to raise and nurture their daughter is the most noble work she could do, and hard work at that, and their daughter will grow up a better person for it. What better example could he ask for? You'd have to be a pretty selfish person to make a complaint like this.
The author of that piece must be a feminist cuck.
It seems more like he's taking advantage of a dual income based on what I've read, He doesn't like that he's got to take up most of the financial responsibilities now. Part of life though.
Fuck, I want my wife to be a stay at home mom. I don’t want some random fuckhead at a daycare watching my children 9 hours a day and charging me $500/week for the “privilege” of having a second income.
With the insane amount of pedophiles and sexual deviants being churned out by our degenerate pop culture, no telling who could be working at the daycare.
That means he’s not a man. What a faggot.
I bet he wants to "pursue his passion" and needs someone else to pay the bills, and wife wanting to stay home means he has to put his dreams aside and make some cash.
Most likely also fake. I've NEVER heard any man say, "she sure has some nice ambitions." Men could care less about that.
raising a baby is ambitious you weirdos
Yep, I linked to the article in the comments, it seems like this guy only cares about money, particularly the ability to sponge off of it with a dual income. He refers to himself in a lamentable way as the sudden bread winner so I think he just wanted to spend most of his money on useless crap.
Translation: i want my wife to work so i dont have to
Bingo!
This is exactly the type of story that makes me annoyed anew with the right wing's tendency to blame the current anti-family social paradigm solely on women or feminism. It takes two, both male and female in a 50/50 world to screw up society and create this instability. A lot of Western men won't let their wives have more children or any children because of either financial or personal freedom issues. Add that to all the men that simply refuse to even get married at all because they've been sold a bill of goods about some fantasy bachelor life of skirt chasing and no responsibility. Starting in the 1970s, the media went on a very aggressive campaign to not only convince women to focus only on their own ambitions, but to convince men that being a husband and father and being committed to a family was a type of slavery, a state of imprisonment that should be avoided at all costs. Three vacations a year and a new car every two years and going out to eat four times a week is supposed to be the preferred tradeoff to raising amazing kids and being in love with your wife and kids for a lifetime and beyond. Sick values.
Cause most western men are huge effeminate cucks.
Perfectly said, Boudicca2!
Thanks, pede
**"He was angry he'd have to sell his car." **
That sums it up. Pathetic cuck probably sits in his basement leeching off government welfare expecting his wife to work and earn money. Then he take that money and buys shiny shit for himself.
Sounds like a typical leftist to me.
Uh, she learned to put someone else's needs before her own?? Like, the very most important person in her life, her child.
What a douche. Thinks his wife is mentally ill for preferring to raise their daughter and not pay a stranger to do it. His heart is the size of a grain of rice.
At least the grain of rice will get a little bigger after you cook it.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/slate.com/human-interest/2021/03/sudden-sahm-concerns-care-and-feeding.amp
Full article, luckily the person that responded to him doesn't seem to sympathize with him at all, which is all right with me for once.
What a lame sack of shit. She'd be lucky if he left her and smart if she left him.
My wife LOVES being a stay at home mom. She was never comfortable in the workforce and loves having all this time to spend with her children and raising them. If it means I need to work harder to support my family, so be it. Part of being a man is giving my family the best life I can, through my sacrifice.
Liberals have made it sound like being in the workforce is the most glamorous and fulfilling thing, for most people it just means sitting at an office desk and getting yelled at by a foreigner every day, men have to put up with it, and that's why they die earlier. there can be fulfilling aspects to work, but the way the left fetishizes it is ridiculous. At least there are women out there that don't buy into the propaganda that muh career is what defines me.
What a retarded idiot. Just because she stays home to raise their child (standard practice) doesnt mean she isn't ambitious.
Again, the “woke” deny reality.
Millions of years of evolution, every instinct we have... it’s all about passing on our genes. The most fulfilling thing in life is to have children and ensure their success and survival. Most women will want to stay home and raise their children if they can. It’s wired into our DNA.
The husband is selfish. The main problem might be because they work at the same company, maybe they are on a team and he does not want to work with someone else.
The second problem, he talks about "generous maternity leave", so his focus is on money and what they have. Company pays a year of maternity leave, and then she quits.
This couple is heading toward a divorce.
That woman married very poorly.
NOT AN ARTICLE
It was a letter to Slate by a typical faggott Slate reader. https://archive.is/E7Uhp
The response fron the Slate employee was fairly normal.
I get that it is probably very daunting going from one income to two. Especially as they seem to have had an agreement before the baby. However babies change you. I know so many mothers who hated going back to work. They resented their husband/partner and their job. Better that he man up and suck it up. Otherwise he might lose them both.
I got hairy legs
It is fake article...... you still belive their psyops lies?
Everyone is calling him a douche, but for all the wrong reasons. He's a douche because he honestly believed her when she said she wanted to go back to work. She lied to him. period. and now his whole dreams for the future are completley derailed and he's married to a woman who.... lied. lol
He's a douche for thinking it was going to be any other way and I hope he finds a way to suck it up and enjoy the ride.... also - dont ever trust women with that kind of shit. ever.
Motherhood changes many women.
I was dedicated to my career and ambitious before I had any children. I never thought I'd be a stay at home mom. I went back to work after my first baby. During my second pregnancy I quit my job, not to stay home with the kids, but due to issues at work. I fully expected to return to the workforce after my second was born.
But after some months at home, I realized I was happier and far less stressed. I also had a much better, closer relationship with my oldest child, and he was much calmer, more secure, and happier. Knowing that his mother wanted to be with him 24/7 and not just on evenings and weekends made a big difference.
When I told my husband that I wanted to stay at home with the kids permanently, he was pretty surprised. But my reasons made sense, so he agreed to it.
So she may not have lied, but instead had a real change of heart.
Oh I definitely don't think she lied. I won't get too much into the reasons, but people do change after they have kids, and it's a much more deep experience for the mother. I don't see how nature could survive if mammals didn't have an attachment to their offspring, it all seems perfectly natural to me which is why I'm surprised anybody could find that to be abnormal. Of course, the left has completely removed naturism from human thought.
Thank you for you comment. I sincerely think the same thing happened to her. She had a "change of heart" after experiencing a life altering event that shifted her priorities. Still, in the aforementioned case, she made promises (at least that is what I am to understand) and broke them. My problem is not with her... it's with him. He is a douche because he should have known that there was a strong chance she would break them and prepared himself for that. He chose to believe in a fictional future, and made no allowance for reality.
Ask your husband (I'm assuming some time has passed) if he was truly surprised by your request, or if somewhere, somehow, he was aware that you would make this shift focus on your children. The truth may surprise you.
He’s a certified, grade-A douche for prioritising his “needs” for things over what is best for his child and wife.
And he’s a weak, myopic manchild who evidently cannot be depended upon or trusted to provide for his family when needed. She’s the one who has been lied to. She’s brought his child into the world and has discovered his primary concern is muh viddyagames and muh hobbies instead of manning up and meeting his most basic responsibility to his child and wife. Now she’s going to be a mother to two infants, instead of one.
Now your are onto something... the question is, by whom, sweetheart? Did he change? I don't think so.