I get what she's saying, now the "if you're abuser is any good" is a bit of a sick line, but I'm sure it feels good to some of the abused. You don't know what it means as a kid, you just see you're getting attention and sexual contact feels good so... I can kind of see what she was trying to get across.

However, her John of God connections show she isn't coming at it this way and is still an active member of the liddle kidz lover club.

To make it clear, I'm not defending this disgusting slob. I like to play devils advocate to get a more nuanced view of situations. It's more of a "now if she was a genuine victim who has never harmed anyone her self, could this statement be explained in a way that isn't twisted?"

I hate to say it but I agree with her. Her point isn’t that “it is great” only that “it feels great”.

That’s a defining line between rape and sexual abuse. A “good” (as in functionally good - not morally good) abuser is going to condition or seduce the victim and try and make it seem like something they want.

That’s part of the evil that screws people up for life. I’m sure the ones referenced in the story where the ones with “bad” abusers. How many more victims haven’t come forward and just keep it a secret for life?