I hate to say it but I agree with her. Her point isn’t that “it is great” only that “it feels great”.

That’s a defining line between rape and sexual abuse. A “good” (as in functionally good - not morally good) abuser is going to condition or seduce the victim and try and make it seem like something they want.

That’s part of the evil that screws people up for life. I’m sure the ones referenced in the story where the ones with “bad” abusers. How many more victims haven’t come forward and just keep it a secret for life?