Their instances of symmetry and complimentary, immediately stand out.
Their shirts, their collars, their gait... His right is chaos, watch on the wrong wrist, shirt poorly tucked, zipper protruding, her left is chaos with the beer and jumble of wire. All of this screams enmeshment.
Her shirt was previously tucked in, as evident by the substantial crease at belt height. Coupled with her lack of shoes and her phone, uselessly in her right hand, all make it very clear that she is unnatural here, most probably interrupted.
But really all of this is noise.
What it boils down to is that if you removed him from the photo, she is a mess. Shoeless, booze, chaotic, oblivious to the camera, and her arm and posture would be extremely unnatural. If you remove her from the camera, he would look perfectly normal, eye contact with the photographer, hand in pocket, determined stride... The only thing out of place is his zipper... and that disorder flows into her chaos.
This photo just made me wish I knew less about psychology.
Tell me more...
Start with her face.
I don't even know where to start.
Their instances of symmetry and complimentary, immediately stand out.
Their shirts, their collars, their gait... His right is chaos, watch on the wrong wrist, shirt poorly tucked, zipper protruding, her left is chaos with the beer and jumble of wire. All of this screams enmeshment.
Her shirt was previously tucked in, as evident by the substantial crease at belt height. Coupled with her lack of shoes and her phone, uselessly in her right hand, all make it very clear that she is unnatural here, most probably interrupted.
But really all of this is noise.
What it boils down to is that if you removed him from the photo, she is a mess. Shoeless, booze, chaotic, oblivious to the camera, and her arm and posture would be extremely unnatural. If you remove her from the camera, he would look perfectly normal, eye contact with the photographer, hand in pocket, determined stride... The only thing out of place is his zipper... and that disorder flows into her chaos.
I really liked this. Thank you for posting 🤗
And no social distancing.
https://amp-mindbodygreen-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/amp.mindbodygreen.com/articles/enmeshment-signs-and-how-to-heal?amp_js_v=a6&_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQHKAFQArABIA%3D%3D#aoh=16156520624946&_ct=1615652069587&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&_tf=From%20%251%24s&share=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mindbodygreen.com%2Farticles%2Fenmeshment-signs-and-how-to-heal
That article kinda sorta gets it.
It's an unconscious synchronicity that is extremely difficult to break and often invisible to the enmeshed parties.
Lmao.....K.I.S.S. She was raised in a liberal family....she looks like any rich liberal.
Shoeless, clutching a man with his fly down?