BE A HIGH VALUE WOMAN
A high value woman is a woman who doesn't revolve her life around men. She has her own career, hobbies, and a great social life that fulfills her emotional needs, so if she does welcome a man in her life, he better be amazing. A high value woman also doesn't romanticize men's true nature, therefore she's cautious around them and wants them to prove themselves to her before she gets emotionally attached.
LET MEN CHASE YOU
A man’s role is to be the pursuer, the one to convince you that he’s the right man for you. As a woman, you don’t have to prove yourself to him. He either sees your value or he doesn’t. The only thing that’s within your control is working on becoming your best self.
MOST MEN ARE NOT OF VALUE TO YOU
The majority of the advances you receive from men are not of any value, because the majority of them are from men who only want to use you for sex. Many men are sex-driven, low effort, and entitled. However, there are also men out there who can be amazing boyfriends and husbands who know how to be a man and how to take care of you in all ways.
RUTHLESSLY EVALUATE MEN
We do ourselves and humanity no favors allowing men to exhibit subpar behavior and being rewarded with our attention. Thus, be ruthless in cutting off men who add no value to your life (happiness, emotional security, financial).
MAKE HIM INVEST BEFORE SEX
Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value and investment (if you're looking for FWBs). If a man is really into you and sees you as girlfriend material, he will commit to you in two months (or three months max). If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides you the respect and fun times that you want.
GENEROUS MEN ARE NON-NEGOTIABLE
While we believe in having your own career and making your own money, a man still has to add financial value to your life and make you feel like he can take care of you. This means not splitting the bill and not dating financially challenged men.
Good looking robust men are gatekeepers of commitment because they are the only ones which women value. You can't gatekeep or protect something which is not desired by others, and women don't desire the commitment and affections of most men.
Yes but most women are inherently parasitic like this. They seek to exploit us and enslave us.
Marriage used to protect you. It confined you but it protected you too. It confined women but protected them too. And we got to have another generation.
All this liberation has left everybody panicked, porn addicted, and very, very sterile.
This problem is going to solve ITSELF, when you are all slipped into your natural end and are forgotten. Your median age is forty.
The idea was to find one woman, and get every bit as much back as what you gave.
The best bet for that is a decent clerical type who is smarter than her job requires, who has no professional qualifications. She is bored, and would love a family. She may envy professional women, and report to several, but she has neither time, nor inclination, nor tuition money, to become one. She is all right-looking, but not hot. She is not "dating" material, but she would make a good wife.
The last thing you want around you is dating material.
I have known men who were short, small, bald, men, but there was stuffing inside them, brains in their heads, and they had decent marriages and respectful children. They were very disciplined personally. They memorized a lot of material, and had strong opinions. They were mentally sharp. They could say no, loudly if necessary.
We have moved towards a model of consumerism in our views regarding relationships. Relationships are all about consuming romance and affection instead of providing stability, security, and emotional well-being. In place of humane consideration of each other, we have excessive demands of performance. This has been our ruin.
Yes. This.
Men have to decide what they want, and let everybody know.
Dating women with “high powered” jobs is exhausting. Hypergamy means they typically want a man who is also in a high stress position. So both people are stressed, and dinner conversations revolve around work stuff.
Sorry, but I don’t care about a woman’s career. I care about her maternal nature and emotionally supportive tendencies.
Right.
Specifically scan and look at the clerical women you see, in offices and bank branches.
And let the attitude you describe, which is the right one, be known. State it, in carrying tones, into the air, when you are around people. Very early, not eventually.