Thank you. I apologize as well. It has been torturous to see what this has done to my MIL and spouse. If things don't change soon she could die in there. My wife is extremely worried, frustrated and depressed. Every time a visit has been arranged by appointment it has been canceled on arrival due to "covid". Last time I had to try to talk to my MIL through a closed window.

My spouse is stuck up here taking care of my mom full time.

But you're probably right, we'd hit it off Kansas. The pressure though has ripped through our family and the longer this goes on the worse it gets. Good luck to you.