I actually agree with this. I don't think the extremely strict "no sex before marriage" thing is feasible, but I can see how easily that gets out of hand at the same time. I wonder if compromising and basically shaming women for not being married by 25 would work, rather than try to put the cat back in the bag. A lot of women are finding that putting out for the top 10% of guys is basically leaving them childless and alone in their 30s, so things are starting to reach a tipping point either way.
You don't want to have sex before marriage because it will destroy your relations with your partner in the future. Women who have had multiple sexual partners tend to be less happy when they are married then those who don't have sex until marriage. Also nobody wants some nasty ass busted STD ridden partner who has had sex with 10+ people, is disgusting.
Sure, but that doesn't mean that ALL sex before marriage is bad. Even people in the 40s and 50s had some sex before marriage (they had condoms then), but it was only with long term boyfriends that had already made a commitment (and it often lead to marriage). Ever heard the term "parking"?
I actually agree with this. I don't think the extremely strict "no sex before marriage" thing is feasible, but I can see how easily that gets out of hand at the same time. I wonder if compromising and basically shaming women for not being married by 25 would work, rather than try to put the cat back in the bag. A lot of women are finding that putting out for the top 10% of guys is basically leaving them childless and alone in their 30s, so things are starting to reach a tipping point either way.
You don't want to have sex before marriage because it will destroy your relations with your partner in the future. Women who have had multiple sexual partners tend to be less happy when they are married then those who don't have sex until marriage. Also nobody wants some nasty ass busted STD ridden partner who has had sex with 10+ people, is disgusting.
Sure, but that doesn't mean that ALL sex before marriage is bad. Even people in the 40s and 50s had some sex before marriage (they had condoms then), but it was only with long term boyfriends that had already made a commitment (and it often lead to marriage). Ever heard the term "parking"?
ever heard the term 'marinating'?